Well, I’m 14 and it’s hard for me. I’m not scared of the girls I’m scared of the relationship. I also don’t have a lot of girl friends and the ones I have are older. One of my friends though he has a girlfriend all the time and he’s on this ai chat site an NSFW one plus he’s a porn artist and animator. And he’s also ugly with unclean hair and stuff but somehow he’s dating this one hot girl. For me I think it relies on personality, since me and this friend are both ugly but he’s loud and extroverted, he even screamed then N word in his neighborhood while on a discord call and does not hesitate to say a thing. Meanwhile me I’m more quiet and introverted and can’t even get to the talking stage, I’d never do the shir he does. He even got called down to the office for making his profile picture a picture of his friend in front of a trans flag. So I think it really relies on personality with girls your league but girls out of your league it’s personality, looks, popularity, whatever (keep in mind I’m 14 and a freshman in high school)