Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?

I wouldn't worry so much about "losing your V-card". The day will come when you finally do it and it will be great, but you also feel like you should have saved it for that special person. Best advice I can give is to not to view others enviously or believe that the world is so small that this one girl/guy you can't talk to is important. There will be more. You gotta let that shit go sometimes. Its what everyone says, but focusing on yourself is the most important thing. I have a gf of 2 years and Ive been way happier. At the same time though life is progressing in a way that the happiness she gives me just does not solve my actual real world problems.
2nd best advice I can give is try to control your hormones. There'll come a time when you need to grow up and throw that shit away. Don't make it harder for yourself and grow attached to some unsavory habits.
true ill wait till im 95
 

TheKnightOfTheSea

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It can be really challenging if you have a close-minded attitude. If you ain't shit you have no right to have that high of standards
 
Have you made a strong effort to be appealing to girls?
Define a strong effort? I hit the gym 3-4x a week
Talk to randoms
Idk what more can I do
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Dating especially for younger people is much easier (or rather much more convenient) nowadays than ever before.
This just causes more abundance of choice in women. This is why Islam is based
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If you can't succeed with women there's always an equal amount of men to try your luck with.
Or horses
(Berserk) lol
 

TheKnightOfTheSea

𝕷𝖔𝖗𝖉 𝖔𝖋 𝕸𝖔𝖔𝖓'𝖘 𝕾𝖕𝖆𝖜𝖓
Define a strong effort? I hit the gym 3-4x a week
Talk to randoms
Idk what more can I do
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This just causes more abundance of choice in women. This is why Islam is based
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Or horses
(Berserk) lol
Being in shape helps.

But do you make an effort to be interesting and try to have pleasant interactions?
 
Being in shape helps.

But do you make an effort to be interesting and try to have pleasant interactions?
Define interesting
And yes generally I’m a nice person when in public
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Well, I’m 14 and it’s hard for me. I’m not scared of the girls I’m scared of the relationship. I also don’t have a lot of girl friends and the ones I have are older. One of my friends though he has a girlfriend all the time and he’s on this ai chat site an NSFW one plus he’s a porn artist and animator. And he’s also ugly with unclean hair and stuff but somehow he’s dating this one hot girl. For me I think it relies on personality, since me and this friend are both ugly but he’s loud and extroverted, he even screamed then N word in his neighborhood while on a discord call and does not hesitate to say a thing. Meanwhile me I’m more quiet and introverted and can’t even get to the talking stage, I’d never do the shir he does. He even got called down to the office for making his profile picture a picture of his friend in front of a trans flag. So I think it really relies on personality with girls your league but girls out of your league it’s personality, looks, popularity, whatever (keep in mind I’m 14 and a freshman in high school)
Which ai site is it btw?
Moemate
Character ai
Talkie
??? Just curious

and yeah ur on point on the personality thing

I can’t talk that well
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I think the problem of dating is not dating. Its the fact that people will get stuck in toxic or non fruitful relationships. And to avoid that, I have only one advice:

Know yourself better.

- What do you believe in ?
- What are your values ?
- What is your political side, what side can't you stand ?
- What do you like and what do you hate in culture, in sex, in relationships, in society ?
- Do you want a future or nothing serious ?
- Do you have project or not at all ?
- Do you like surprises or not ?
- What type of person are you ?
- Do you want children or not ?
- What type of children do you want to raise ?
Etc.

If you know what you want and what you are and especially what you doesn't want, you won't suffer during dates, you will be able to have real conversations and see right away what kind of person matches with you.

As long as you respect yourself and you respect others, there should be no problem.

(ps: Don't hit on people in the streets)
What do you believe in ?
Islamic Sunni Wahhabism
- What are your values ?
Family values, physical fitness, and being nice
- What is your political side, what side can't you stand ?
Far right can’t handle leftie loonies
- What do you like and what do you hate in culture, in sex, in relationships, in society ?
I like girls. Chocolate, caramel mithai. Aloo parantha. Biryani. Old Spider man comics
- Do you want a future or nothing serious ?
Future
- Do you have project or not at all ?
Project???
- Do you like surprises or not ?
Yes if they’re good surprises like Aloo parantha in the morning
- What type of person are you ?
A nerd tryna be a gigachad
- Do you want children or not ?
Yes
- What type of children do you want to raise ?
Religious athletic
Not weak
No gays or transgenders
 
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Maybe if people could understand what their type is. Dating would be easier.

You should be into women that you find physically and personally attractive.

Don't get fooled by their physics.


Anyway, I feel like I give lessons for children lmao, but basics are always good to remember.
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What do you believe in ?
Islamic Sunni Wahhabism
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Maybe if people could understand what their type is. Dating would be easier.

You should be into women that you find physically and personally attractive.

Don't get fooled by their physics.


Anyway, I feel like I give lessons for children lmao, but basics are always good to remember.
Don't get fooled by their physics.
:milaugh::suresure::suresure:
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What about jiggle Physics?
Gyatt physics>>>
 
true ill wait till im 95
Keep you v card, bro. Its a sign you are not a hog. Many men throw their v card away in filthy whorehouses. Being a virgin is a virtue.
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2024 Update
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If you have patience enough to work your day through all your exhaustion and get asked "would you have loved me if I was a Worm"
And you have this reaction.

Then yea it's going to be hard for you.
And I assure you this question would be asked 1000s of time.
Second they ask you about your past to get angry with you , and finds a reason to stay angry.
:kayneshrug:
I thought I mastered Women's. But I give up.
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😭😭😭😭
Bro I was watching South park when i was 14.

Is it really true kids hitting their puberty early nowadays?
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more like kids are sexualized earlier due to the exposure to sex in pretty much any media
 
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Keep you v card, bro. Its a sign you are not hog. Many men from their v card away in filthy whorehouses. Being a virgin is a virtue.
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more like kids are sexualized earlier due to the exposure to sex in pretty much any media
Feels like sex should have more meaning than it does to most people nowadays. I'd rather only ever have it with one person that I really love and trust then go around clapping hooker cheeks left and right for most of my life.
 
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