Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?
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I don't think so.
It depends on the social circles I will frequent. In leftist circle, a lot of people prefer to wait. Finding will be the hardest job but after that, I don't really see dating as a problem as long as I'm cool with my situation. Which is not something that will happen soon.
It's not because I'm single now that I have always been single. I actually had good love stories that ended with respect on both sides. Respecting women shouldn't start when you start to search for love.
I want to add that under patriarchy, it's not a given but it's a duty. We are raised - even with love - in a way that disregards women's experiences and feeling. Me first. I was like some of you before, objectifying and rating women.. but that's something we must go beyond.
Respect women and you will be respected in return.
It depends on the social circles I will frequent. In leftist circle, a lot of people prefer to wait. Finding will be the hardest job but after that, I don't really see dating as a problem as long as I'm cool with my situation. Which is not something that will happen soon.
It's not because I'm single now that I have always been single. I actually had good love stories that ended with respect on both sides. Respecting women shouldn't start when you start to search for love.
I want to add that under patriarchy, it's not a given but it's a duty. We are raised - even with love - in a way that disregards women's experiences and feeling. Me first. I was like some of you before, objectifying and rating women.. but that's something we must go beyond.
Respect women and you will be respected in return.
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Well to be in a relationship that aggregates positive outcomes, emotional maturity is a must. Which is lacking I think generally speaking. So people prefer to do their own thing than to deal with the negatives of a relationship.
Heki heki though. Relationships are a bonus/extra, not a basic necessity imo.
Heki heki though. Relationships are a bonus/extra, not a basic necessity imo.
It's a basic necessity actually.
You need a motivation to keep going.
And that motivation is often relationships.
Ask any low wage or any workers really what is their motivation and they often say wife, kids, Parents etc
A lonely man have no incentive to keep going.
Hence the high suicide rates among lonely men
Brutal.
Desis dominate the most decreased attraction in both categories
It's over for CurryCels
You need a motivation to keep going.
And that motivation is often relationships.
Ask any low wage or any workers really what is their motivation and they often say wife, kids, Parents etc
A lonely man have no incentive to keep going.
Hence the high suicide rates among lonely men
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Brutal.
Desis dominate the most decreased attraction in both categories
It's over for CurryCels
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Yeah sure. It can be an emotional necessity. I was more talking on the lines of physical ones where if you don't fullfil them, your body ceases to function. That's what I would call a basic necessity I think.
To be more correct it's a conditional emotional necessity. Romantic ones at least. Socializing is very important after all.
If someone values romantic relationships, then it can be a necessity for them, but by no means it's an universally basic necessity. I would attribute that more to interactions instead.
You can be motivated by other things aside from romantic relationships, like traveling,, some kind of hobby etc etc
To be more correct it's a conditional emotional necessity. Romantic ones at least. Socializing is very important after all.
If someone values romantic relationships, then it can be a necessity for them, but by no means it's an universally basic necessity. I would attribute that more to interactions instead.
You can be motivated by other things aside from romantic relationships, like traveling,, some kind of hobby etc etc
It literally does though.
Being lonely=>Being Depressed=>health problems
If it's not necessity then why 99.9% of humans have relationships and others who don't desperately crave it?
Romantic relationship fullfil a different void inside you from those things though
That is the human desire to feel special/unique and valued
Those hobbies are just time passing
Being lonely=>Being Depressed=>health problems
If it's not necessity then why 99.9% of humans have relationships and others who don't desperately crave it?
Romantic relationship fullfil a different void inside you from those things though
That is the human desire to feel special/unique and valued
Those hobbies are just time passing
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