It's like men don't even have a voice to speak for them. For instance, one of the biggest reasons Indian women love using to victimize themselves is arranged marriages. Men are just as clueless in an arranged marriage setting as women, but still, women are the victims even if the same shit happens to both of them.
My own cousin(who's like a best friend to me) has been abused for the past few years by his wife, and there is not a single thing we could do besides tell him to suck it up and deal with it politely. We, as a family, are much more powerful than her family; we're more influential; we're more educated; we're also in a much better position economically than her family. Yet, we can't do shit against one woman to save a blood relative.