Confident and looks go together tbh, if you ain't got the looks, you will not be confident
its easier to be confident if you have the looks to back it up.
you also do not need much confidence when women are fawning over you anyways.
if you see ugly guys with pretty girls they mostly have 1 thing in common. confidence. whereever they get it from.
Looks carry a lot but they arent end to all means
you can be a child molester and women would still shag you if you are hot. stop fucking coping.
looks trumps everything else. if you look shit you are fighting an uphill battle, period.
the level of cognitive dissonance.
men have this weird assumption that women are fundamentally different than us. they are not. the only difference is that women can be more picky. men eventually take w/e. top 50%? pfff, fine. women chase the top 5%.
women want good genes. men want good genes.
we are genetically programmed to try to fuck the ones that net the best genes. we judge this mostly by looks.
try to maximize your looks.
this has a positive effect on your confidence aswell.