Pick up artist/Seducer/Seductress thread.

What do you really achieve by drinking before you talk to a girl?

Your breath smells like liquor, the "confidence" you get isn't "confidence" but straight up lack of awareness of the situation. If you are drunk, you won't be able to talk right, stand right or do anything right. Your first impression will suck.

Just be open, playful but with restraint, confident with touch of arrogance but not narcissism, mysterious but not closed, open but not an open book.

Jesus christ i once got a girl just because i would read a book in the cafe i go during every work break.
Yea i mean do you have your own mental recipe or practice for confidence? Like some examples above. Or for me personally i remind myself about my positive qualities so i know that i'm gonna be better/proficient at certain stuff compared to that girl.
 

Adam 🍎

Pretty Boy
Yea i mean do you have your own mental recipe or practice for confidence? Like some examples above. Or for me personally i remind myself about my positive qualities so i know that i'm gonna be better/proficient at certain stuff compared to that girl.
Improve yourself. Confidence comes from your ability to appreciate yourself and your worth.

Excercise, grooming and dressing well, education and so on. The more you invest in yourself the more confidence you will get
 
Do not worry about looks. Worry about being hygenic, having fashion sense or at least dress like you give a f******* s**** seriously iron your clothes. Get a voice coach so you can pronounce the words better and read something. Do not be a total idiot
 

K!NG HARA$H!MA

Hustlerversity Graduate
Do not worry about looks
Looks come first.

If one got bad looks, and try all the things you mentioned, you fall into * trying too hard* category

Looks carry you in everything,

If you got looks, you're more likely to be hired for job, more likely to be your parents favorite child, less likely of being suspected of doing crime etc and this all proven in studies
 
B

Ballel

Looks carry you in everything,

If you got looks, you're more likely to be hired for job, more likely to be your parents favorite child, less likely of being suspected of doing crime etc and this all proven in studies
True.
Most people will never want to realize but that's how the world works.
 
Looks come first.

If one got bad looks, and try all the things you mentioned, you fall into * trying too hard* category

Looks carry you in everything,

If you got looks, you're more likely to be hired for job, more likely to be your parents favorite child, less likely of being suspected of doing crime etc and this all proven in studies
Having respect for yourself and improving yourself is not trying too hard. What you said is so stupid that is not even funny. Even pretty people need to get dolled up which includes most of the things I mentioned.
 

Adam 🍎

Pretty Boy
Looks come first.

If one got bad looks, and try all the things you mentioned, you fall into * trying too hard* category

Looks carry you in everything,

If you got looks, you're more likely to be hired for job, more likely to be your parents favorite child, less likely of being suspected of doing crime etc and this all proven in studies
Looks carry a lot but they arent end to all means

You play to your strengths. If looks isnt the one you play other stuff.
 
Confident and looks go together tbh, if you ain't got the looks, you will not be confident
its easier to be confident if you have the looks to back it up.
you also do not need much confidence when women are fawning over you anyways.
if you see ugly guys with pretty girls they mostly have 1 thing in common. confidence. whereever they get it from.
Looks carry a lot but they arent end to all means
you can be a child molester and women would still shag you if you are hot. stop fucking coping.
looks trumps everything else. if you look shit you are fighting an uphill battle, period.

the level of cognitive dissonance.
men have this weird assumption that women are fundamentally different than us. they are not. the only difference is that women can be more picky. men eventually take w/e. top 50%? pfff, fine. women chase the top 5%.
women want good genes. men want good genes.
we are genetically programmed to try to fuck the ones that net the best genes. we judge this mostly by looks.

try to maximize your looks.
this has a positive effect on your confidence aswell.
 

Adam 🍎

Pretty Boy
you can be a child molester and women would still shag you if you are hot. stop fucking coping.
looks trumps everything else. if you look shit you are fighting an uphill battle, period.

the level of cognitive dissonance.
men have this weird assumption that women are fundamentally different than us. they are not. the only difference is that women can be more picky. men eventually take w/e. top 50%? pfff, fine. women chase the top 5%.
women want good genes. men want good genes.
we are genetically programmed to try to fuck the ones that net the best genes. we judge this mostly by looks.

try to maximize your looks.
this has a positive effect on your confidence aswell.
This is.some beta shit right here
 
its easier to be confident if you have the looks to back it up.
you also do not need much confidence when women are fawning over you anyways.
if you see ugly guys with pretty girls they mostly have 1 thing in common. confidence. whereever they get it from.

you can be a child molester and women would still shag you if you are hot. stop fucking coping.
looks trumps everything else. if you look shit you are fighting an uphill battle, period.

the level of cognitive dissonance.
men have this weird assumption that women are fundamentally different than us. they are not. the only difference is that women can be more picky. men eventually take w/e. top 50%? pfff, fine. women chase the top 5%.
women want good genes. men want good genes.
we are genetically programmed to try to fuck the ones that net the best genes. we judge this mostly by looks.

try to maximize your looks.
this has a positive effect on your confidence aswell.
Sometimes looks have a lot to do with how you take care of yourself. Grooming, knowing how to dress etc


I bet most dudes who complain about being “ugly” or “average looking” are people who don’t put in the work to look better
 
it certainly helps.
if you are really good looking you barely have to do that aswell though.

think of how you would react. would you rather bone a highly attractive women dressed in rags with messy hair or an mediocre woman in a high class dress with perfect makeup and hairstyle.
answer for yourself and keep in mind that women are just the same.

This is.some beta shit right here
keep coping. its not going to change anything
 
think of how you would react. would you rather bone a highly attractive women dressed in rags with messy hair or an mediocre woman in a high class dress with perfect makeup and hairstyle.
answer for yourself and keep in mind that women are just the same.
The woman that actually takes care herself. You’re forgetting grooming and hygiene go hand in hand. A hot woman who looks like a mess is just a sign of a woman who has some issues imo

even if my opinion is unpopular that second woman would still get a lot of looks from men and women alike. If you’re aiming to fuck the top 1% of women then of course you would have this loser mentality
 
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