It is a popular thing to say "lol I suck, I'm stupid and fat xdd I don't matter", even seen as a sign od maturity, but is it really?
Maybe to some extend humbleness is good of course but is this humbleness or just deflection.
For example somebody critices you and instead of reflecting you just say "haha Im just a piece of shit" and go on with it.
The best example is prolly fat comedians who make whole routines pointing out how fat and glutonous they are but never change it, thinking that by aknowleding it, it automatically is "ok".
Yet when someone else makes fun of them they still get offended, showing that it was all an illusion.
Idk, whats your opinion?
Maybe to some extend humbleness is good of course but is this humbleness or just deflection.
For example somebody critices you and instead of reflecting you just say "haha Im just a piece of shit" and go on with it.
The best example is prolly fat comedians who make whole routines pointing out how fat and glutonous they are but never change it, thinking that by aknowleding it, it automatically is "ok".
Yet when someone else makes fun of them they still get offended, showing that it was all an illusion.
Idk, whats your opinion?