Real men don't pull up to anime+manga forums to bitch about the declination and stagnation of masculinity...
If you wanna 'fix' something start with yourself. If you have problems with how the world is running, reflect on perfecting yourself first before you project your issues/mentality towards others (this way you would have a platform and audience as well as respectability).
The common consensus
here is that this is a
you problem,
most people are alright with everything going on.
Ragging on how women, men, or both live doesn't solve anything.
Not saying this is all on you but this is the incorrect outlet to preach misinformation about reality. I agree with some of your points but your overall beliefs are kinda nonsensical so to invalidate your overall message.