Damn how come you guys are still flaming me for this thread
Perhaps I phrased my posts in such a way that was a bit controversial. I am not a criminal and I'm not at risk of becoming one, I swear! And yes it was in the toilet for whoever needed that clarification lol.
Anyway, jokes aside. In retrospective everybody here was right and it was as simple as just making a move to find out. I ended up deciding to move away because of some personal reasons but it kind of sucks because I didn't like anyone for the past 2 years? It would have been much smarter to do a little action rather than overthink it that much but I admit that I wasn't prepared back then, proof of that is this very thread. But well, you live, you learn.