Would it have been that hard to ban users who use "disguised" Homophobic and transphobic slurs against each other?
dont know, open a forum by yourself and rule it, show how to deal with it.
You know exactly that most people which get toxic against each other here know each other and are more less fine with it. Otherwise we deal with it, just today I banned someone not unknown for some days, for exact this reason.
But you don’t see these things, cause we don’t tell everyone who gets banned or not. Yes we are more lenient then some other places, but we deal with homophobic stuff etc..