I've given up on making people love gay people. Making people hate people who hate gay people? That's actually viable.
Flight/Fight/Survival of the Fittest has left us so that fear motivates us more than anything else, for better or worse.
I want to learn how to use fear to motivate me, rather than use it to destroy me. Stress and fear can be good motivators. Same thing with hatred.
Hating child-abuse and stuff like that is good. I love love, but people love hatred, so, let's hate hatred, and love hating hatred. Or something.