So?
she was a 12 year old girl
do you really think it's that weird that a 12 year old girl focuses a lot on men? and 12 year old boys love to focus on fighting?
Hinata just thought about Naruto 24/7 too, and nobody trashes her for that huh?
and even then she had great moments, but people choose to forget them
her moment in the Forest of Death trying to protect Naruto and Sasuke is great, she did much better than i ever thought she could
she also really developed and warmed up to Lee and other characters later on, something i didn't expect from her at all