Controversial SHOULD Men And Women Be Friends?
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I routinely bang my feminist weeb fiancé (although she and I are NOT friends after nearly seven years together), anything else to add?? 
She's your fiance because you're beyond that relationship, or that's what makes sense at least.
Like would your fiance be comfy if you have other female friends that you hangout with without her? And vice versa ofcourse.
I suppose your fiancé is probably around this forum too,right?
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He said they are not friends.Did you even read that post?
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You consider your fiance a friend? That's big no.
She's your fiance because you're beyond that relationship, or that's what makes sense at least.
Like would your fiance be comfy if you have other female friends that you hangout with without her? And vice versa ofcourse.
She's your fiance because you're beyond that relationship, or that's what makes sense at least.
Like would your fiance be comfy if you have other female friends that you hangout with without her? And vice versa ofcourse.
You consider your fiance a friend? That's big no.
She's your fiance because you're beyond that relationship, or that's what makes sense at least.
Like would your fiance be comfy if you have other female friends that you hangout with without her? And vice versa ofcourse.
She's your fiance because you're beyond that relationship, or that's what makes sense at least.
Like would your fiance be comfy if you have other female friends that you hangout with without her? And vice versa ofcourse.
Imagine not trusting someone you love to the degree that you won’t let them hang out with people of different genders or thinking a romantic relationship negates the possibility of also being friends with your partner…even if this is a joke, it’s a really bad one. If you don’t let your girl have male friends because a) you think she’s that eager to cheat on you, or b) you know you would do the same in reverse, it’s possible you’re just in a shitty relationship that needs to end
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The capacity for self-control is a thing we all have, and I highly recommend anyone who thinks cheating is a normal part of relationships to explore theirs at some point. If you’re not getting what you need from your partner, then instead of hurting them in a major way and breaking their trust, just dump them and move on; I promise, the latter option is significantly kinder and less messy after the fact than the former. Not gonna sit here and say I haven’t had minor-to-moderate crushes on friends or people I wasn’t dating, but you don’t have to act on every single impulse unless you’re an uncivilized mongoloid who can’t work through your emotions on your own.
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If you feel your needs aren’t being met in a relationship, having a friendship as a foundation makes it easier to talk things out with your partner; then, if you still can’t agree on how both parties should treat the other, you can separate and find someone who is more suited to your desires. I get that the hyper masculine jabronis think showing any vulnerability is a mistake, which is more of an admission about the poor quality of their mindset and behavior than anything else, but you can either save yourself the drama and tension of a messy breakup or lean into it and get exactly what you paid for by being withholding and impersonal
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If you feel your needs aren’t being met in a relationship, having a friendship as a foundation makes it easier to talk things out with your partner; then, if you still can’t agree on how both parties should treat the other, you can separate and find someone who is more suited to your desires. I get that the hyper masculine jabronis think showing any vulnerability is a mistake, which is more of an admission about the poor quality of their mindset and behavior than anything else, but you can either save yourself the drama and tension of a messy breakup or lean into it and get exactly what you paid for by being withholding and impersonal
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The capacity for self-control is a thing we all have, and I highly recommend anyone who thinks cheating is a normal part of relationships to explore theirs at some point. If you’re not getting what you need from your partner, then instead of hurting them in a major way and breaking their trust, just dump them and move on; I promise, the latter option is significantly kinder and less messy after the fact than the former. Not gonna sit here and say I haven’t had minor-to-moderate crushes on friends or people I wasn’t dating, but you don’t have to act on every single impulse unless you’re an uncivilized mongoloid who can’t work through your emotions on your own.
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If you feel your needs aren’t being met in a relationship, having a friendship as a foundation makes it easier to talk things out with your partner; then, if you still can’t agree on how both parties should treat the other, you can separate and find someone who is more suited to your desires. I get that the hyper masculine jabronis think showing any vulnerability is a mistake, which is more of an admission about the poor quality of their mindset and behavior than anything else, but you can either save yourself the drama and tension of a messy breakup or lean into it and get exactly what you paid for by being withholding and impersonal
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If you feel your needs aren’t being met in a relationship, having a friendship as a foundation makes it easier to talk things out with your partner; then, if you still can’t agree on how both parties should treat the other, you can separate and find someone who is more suited to your desires. I get that the hyper masculine jabronis think showing any vulnerability is a mistake, which is more of an admission about the poor quality of their mindset and behavior than anything else, but you can either save yourself the drama and tension of a messy breakup or lean into it and get exactly what you paid for by being withholding and impersonal
I say yes, with the caveat that girls are pretty cool and if they sense you’re a cretin who posts anti-feminism shit on an anime forum all day long, they’re right to not fuck OR friend you 
That being said I have many female friends. Their bfs don't like me. I haven't fucked half of them tho
Girls are human and should be friends with who they want. If they're in a relationship then the rules should be adjusted to the boundaries they agree upon as a unit.
Imagine not trusting someone you love to the degree that you won’t let them hang out with people of different genders or thinking a romantic relationship negates the possibility of also being friends with your partner…even if this is a joke, it’s a really bad one. If you don’t let your girl have male friends because a) you think she’s that eager to cheat on you, or b) you know you would do the same in reverse, it’s possible you’re just in a shitty relationship that needs to end
Any 2 people in a serious relationship, regardless of gender, should feel jealousy in regards to their partner, and if that’s not the case then the relationship was nonexistent in the first place lol
No need to hide basic human instincts behind walls of moral nonsense. No need to overcomplicate things, if you two have each other there’s no point in you or her having actual friends, not acquaintances, of the opposite sex, where the initiative can come from third parties. People are not angels and can sometimes work against themselves and each other, nor are circumstances always on point, so to avoid all this confusion people go with that route.
Like I said above - if you can’t trust your girl enough to let her hang out with a male friend, there’s probably a deeper meaning behind it…if you think she WANTS to cheat on you, then that most likely means you’re not giving her what she needs. It’s not a great example since my fiancé doesn’t really have male friends by her own choice, but I make her happy enough in myriad ways at home that I know she’s satisfied and doesn’t need to go out looking for fulfillment in other people. If you keep your house right, you have nothing to fear, you know?