Controversial SHOULD Men And Women Be Friends?
- Thread starter Jew D. Boy
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Jealousy is natural, but again, if yours is so out of control in regards to your romantic partner that you set rules about who she’s allowed to see like you’re her fucking daddy or something, that’s your problem. I’d rather give people the benefit of the doubt and get hurt later than assume from the start it’s gonna happen and create a self-fulfilling prophecy by being a controlling lunatic. Yeah, some people are inherently crummy and will do cruel things to others…so maybe date someone who ISN’T like that??
I don’t know, maybe it’s just me…but I think I read people fairly well, and I choose my friends, romantic partners, and folks who fall into both categories based on the likelihood they’ll turn out to be shitty. Gotta say, aside from joining and spending years on this forum, my judgment has been pretty solid in that regard!! Maybe some of y’all just need to learn how to recognize destructive behaviors and avoid getting involved with the men or women who display them 
That's a clown answer. I've been in relationships before where everything was perfect for me and I've still almost fallen to lust. That's a winkboy answer and most definitely came from hearing feminist propaganda over and over.
However that doesn't mean it's true for everyone. What works for one relationship doesn't work for another. It's all about what you agree to as a unit.
😂 you're telling me. I'm always looking out
However that doesn't mean it's true for everyone. What works for one relationship doesn't work for another. It's all about what you agree to as a unit.
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😂 you're telling me. I'm always looking out
Nothing is true for everyone, your opinion or mine, so that’s not a productive response. Regardless, I said I’ve also wanted to bang people while in a relationship with someone else, but I don’t need to do it when I have a willing participant at all times right at home, so when I do spend time with my female friends, I’m not drooling and leaking precum the whole way. It’s a hungry dog that turns over the trash, you only look to do that shit when you’re not happy with your current situation.
If there's no jealousy how does it qualify as a relationship
From the looks of it you have a very crude way of looking at this,
You're also assuming this control is one sided, when in fact women manipulate men just the same
Is this daddy bs really what comes to your mind when such topics are discussed? I doubt more than .001% of society actually do dumb shit like that. Each person has his boundaries anyway and if you can work it out with your partner all is good, there doesn't have to be a learned book on how relationships are built.
From the looks of it you have a very crude way of looking at this,
You're also assuming this control is one sided, when in fact women manipulate men just the same
Is this daddy bs really what comes to your mind when such topics are discussed? I doubt more than .001% of society actually do dumb shit like that. Each person has his boundaries anyway and if you can work it out with your partner all is good, there doesn't have to be a learned book on how relationships are built.
It qualifies as a healthy relationship
If you feel jealousy in regards to your partner it is because you have lack of faith in them to make correct choices and your inability to live without the presence of your partner
Most healthy relationships are ones where the couple can work independently from one another without the other making a fuss about it
If you need your partner to be present by your side 24/7 it is a sign of a doomed relationship
If you feel jealousy in regards to your partner it is because you have lack of faith in them to make correct choices and your inability to live without the presence of your partner
Most healthy relationships are ones where the couple can work independently from one another without the other making a fuss about it
If you need your partner to be present by your side 24/7 it is a sign of a doomed relationship
In your opinion and extremely limited biased experience.
What's true for you only holds for you. There are many who could say the same as me. Your bias makes you disagree so adamantly without considering that what I'm saying could be true. It has nothing to do with not holding it down in your relationship
What's true for you only holds for you. There are many who could say the same as me. Your bias makes you disagree so adamantly without considering that what I'm saying could be true. It has nothing to do with not holding it down in your relationship
10 year old with a fiancé, yep! How old do you think you’ll be when you speak to a woman for the first time? 
I mean, my “extremely limited biased experience” has been several long-term relationships with partners I got to know beforehand as friends, and the ones that ended were civil and mutual while the one that didn’t has been more satisfying every day since it began…if none of this sounds good to you, then keep banging your female friends behind their boyfriends’ backs, I’m sure that will continue working out in your favor
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I mean, my “extremely limited biased experience” has been several long-term relationships with partners I got to know beforehand as friends, and the ones that ended were civil and mutual while the one that didn’t has been more satisfying every day since it began…if none of this sounds good to you, then keep banging your female friends behind their boyfriends’ backs, I’m sure that will continue working out in your favor
So having a partner where you are both enough for each other and working towards the same goals is now outruled by having a multitude of strangers interfere with this privacy, all to paint a picture that you're such a genuine person or whatever.
What a clown way to live. Ofcourse this childish baseless shaming to top it off.
What a clown way to live. Ofcourse this childish baseless shaming to top it off.