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if you were being nice to someone cuz you thought being nice is the default way of doing things or thought that not being nice will usually end in you getting in trouble then fk you for being a pussy, major advice for you is nobody gives a rat's shit bout u, be nice only to those who are nice to you and fuck everyone else who treat you otherwise, that's how you can live without troubling your mind.
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Not that simple. There are tons of reasons for being nice to others even if they are not nice to you. If that mess up with your head or not it is another issue. And if that's how you found to not mess up with your head or not it is another different issue.
You can be nice to people that wasn't nice to you because you know people sometimes have bad day, or got treated badly their whole life, or you want them to like you, or you want to be the better person, or you want to spread the world what you want the world to spread to you(basically kindness generates kindness and violence generates violence).
You can be nice to people that wasn't nice to you because you know people sometimes have bad day, or got treated badly their whole life, or you want them to like you, or you want to be the better person, or you want to spread the world what you want the world to spread to you(basically kindness generates kindness and violence generates violence).
From where am from, that attitude will completely ruin your life.
people are born having no ill intent towards others, the ill intent comes with time, experience and morality.
saying Someone might have a rough day hence his/her “not nice” attitude towards you is a whole other concept, if I was a good guy who had a bad day and ended up bad Mouthing someone for no reason, the very next day I would probably go apologize and say I didn’t mean it, if I was a rude dude and had a bad day (or even on good days) and started verbally shitting on someone, even if they replied nicely to me, I wouldn’t go apologizing the next day cuz I’m a bad MF who is used to insulting people, it’s “normal” for me.
From personal experience, countering the insult game will always yield better results than simply replying nicely, both for yourself and the other guy. He gets to stop and realize how nuts he is behaving, and then both of you could talk it out and maybe even socialize if you feel like it, and you get to handle every situation how it should handled.
had a lot of people mistaking my kindness for weakness, which evolved for even regular dudes trying to harass me so they could try and join the “club of the strongs“
as I said maybe it’s something domestic and not worldwide but no one will ever have a happy life here acting nice in opposition of “not nice”
people are born having no ill intent towards others, the ill intent comes with time, experience and morality.
saying Someone might have a rough day hence his/her “not nice” attitude towards you is a whole other concept, if I was a good guy who had a bad day and ended up bad Mouthing someone for no reason, the very next day I would probably go apologize and say I didn’t mean it, if I was a rude dude and had a bad day (or even on good days) and started verbally shitting on someone, even if they replied nicely to me, I wouldn’t go apologizing the next day cuz I’m a bad MF who is used to insulting people, it’s “normal” for me.
From personal experience, countering the insult game will always yield better results than simply replying nicely, both for yourself and the other guy. He gets to stop and realize how nuts he is behaving, and then both of you could talk it out and maybe even socialize if you feel like it, and you get to handle every situation how it should handled.
had a lot of people mistaking my kindness for weakness, which evolved for even regular dudes trying to harass me so they could try and join the “club of the strongs“
as I said maybe it’s something domestic and not worldwide but no one will ever have a happy life here acting nice in opposition of “not nice”
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So you just proved to me I was right. If you are a good person and had a bad day and didn't meant to insult. There is no reason for me to make your day even worse specially knowing if you are a good person. So I have to be nice.
And if you are a rude person and do that. You are denying that people can change which is false. People can. So I have to be nice too.
I really doubt that to be true. Usually it just leads to greater conflicts (aka physical).
And if you are a rude person and do that. You are denying that people can change which is false. People can. So I have to be nice too.
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I really doubt that to be true. Usually it just leads to greater conflicts (aka physical).
you are assuming the majority of people are good who have been through bad, that’s your flaw, from every point of view, the majority are actually bad people or at best neutrals with bad lenience. That’s what I think anyway.
You remind me of a story a friend of mine used to tell.
two guys were having a discussion, one was atheist and the other was a religious person, so the atheist asked the other guy saying:
what would your reaction be if you died and found out there is no afterlife, No heaven, No nothing, just a complete silence blank?
the religious guy responded:
My reaction wouldn’t be as bad as yours if you die and found out everything you said is real.
You remind me of a story a friend of mine used to tell.
two guys were having a discussion, one was atheist and the other was a religious person, so the atheist asked the other guy saying:
what would your reaction be if you died and found out there is no afterlife, No heaven, No nothing, just a complete silence blank?
the religious guy responded:
My reaction wouldn’t be as bad as yours if you die and found out everything you said is real.
Winter time is when my vitamin d levels get low. I make sure to take a supplement every day. I definitely need to improve my sleep, so maybe I will try magnesium and ashwagandha. One habit I am trying to break is using my phone before falling asleep. The blue light definitely affects my sleep patterns.
You said a good person (especially if you know he is a good person, which is something I never said, if a person you know to be good he is most likely your friend or a an acquaintance and hence no need to badmouth him since both of you know each other, but I was talking about someone who you don’t know to be good or bad cuz you rarely if ever talk to one another) should be replied nicely even if he insults you because you shouldn’t make his day worse. Lol no, the one whose day got worse is you, you haven’t done anything wrong and you have no way of knowing whether the guy in front of you is a good guy who’s been through a bad day or a dick who just wants to insult you anyway he can, I always assume he is bad, cuz Good people will eventually talk it out when they return to their senses and bad people would get what’s coming to them at the spot anyway.
bad people rarely change, most of them require rehabilitation, but first force must be used (police, law enforcement etc)
I used to turn on the other cheek in hope of turning bad into good, it never worked.
bad people rarely change, most of them require rehabilitation, but first force must be used (police, law enforcement etc)
I used to turn on the other cheek in hope of turning bad into good, it never worked.