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@Hanners220 I'm glad that you want a cordial debate, but if you want to do it lets start on good basis, I'm calling you by your actual username, so call me by mine please. Other here are calling me by the dead name of of disrespect but you can do better :)
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I did that already, I spent three month on farm land recolting ressources for scientific purposes. But its not your place to tell me that I need help or what I need to do to get better, so please keep the psychophobia down to the minimum level.
Nop, not yet
Nop, its three years old at least
@Zolo @Bob74h THis is a case an point.
You can see here two things :
The effect of Patriarchy in the denial of AMber heardas a victim and the accusation that she is manipulative (why ? because...)
The effect of the violence the far right has for others idea :"you [...] Should be shot down instead of spreading the crap". I will not report this even if I should because I want all people to see the real face of the far right in front of progressive ideas.
The reality my non dear Ravager, is that we are not talking about the hypothetic manipulations of Amber heard here, but about the abuses and violences she suffered. And like any incel, you are refuting those complains.
Second thing is that patriarchy is a scientific term mate. So you keep your incel and far right rethoric for yourself and don't get in the way please, we are making progress here.
Question : if you think that we should be aware of women's right and consent, why do you think that women who don't want baby should suffer the ENTIERITY and relatives problems linked to a pregnacy for 9 month AND suffer the fact of giving birth Because YOU think we should live in a world were women want to take care of their babies ?
There is something contradictory here.
Yes I did, she is responsible of violence too but in those case, she is not responsible for a rape. She may have been doing shady stuff too but this DOESN'T NEGATES what she suffered in the first place. Both were trying to hurt the other out of the situation, but one did worse, and this is not the one that one laughed at, this was the one seen as the hero
Tell me, did Johnny depp suffered internet harrasment ? And global shame ? Can you adequate being harrassed and delegitimize in your testimonies as the same as having a dedicated fanbase rooting for you while you are being isolated from the industry ? (for the right reason btw)
I'm a fan of Michael Jackson, I will defend his music until my dying breath, but the man was most probably a monster.
My vision is different from both "we should separate the man from the artist " and "we should kill the author". My vision is that art has the POTENTIAL to represent the best a person can do in life. Therefore I see art done by abusers as something wonderful that a very problematic person as done. In other world, I chooses to see the light in the darkness.
But this doesn't mean that I won't boycott financially a very problematic artist if they are alive. Simply because financing a problematic artist finance also their problematic ideas. If MJ was alive, I would illegally download his music, I would boycott the man until justice is served. When and only when the man will understand and take responsibility for his actions, we can talk about rehabilitation and forgiveness.
Its a matter of being just. I accept and recognize the art in most cases, but this doesn't mean that I need to recognize the artist to when they don't take responsibility for their actions.
Between 4-9% are false accusation in one study
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_accusation_of_rape#cite_note-Forensic277_1-1
https://www.researchgate.net/public...ttrition_in_reported_rape_cases_across_Europe
The reality is that "anti-woke" people are OVER ESTIMATING the % of false accusations against men but will gladly lower this % against women and search for every evidences possible when a women is the suspect of abuse.
Yes, by defaut and because of the researches and data we have on the oppression that women are facing and there SYSTEMIC STRUGGLE against the law to be legitimized, we MUST believe all women to even the plainfield. Simply because its the only way to create a sence of equity and counter the systemic delegitimation of women by men and defender of abusers.
If false accusation there is, it will be uncovered by the justice.
You need to understand that accusing men in our society is a synonym of social suicide for a woman. So there is very low chances for false accusation to happen. On the other side, society is constructed is such a way that men who are accused are often using (like Johnny depp did) the institution to delegitimize victim of abuse.