Seek counselor's help and go as per his/her suggestions
I tried to go to a psychiatrist once but it didnt pan out, they told me that we should all leave and leave him alone.
Talk to him, give him an ultimatum, file a restraining order for your family v him
If its too serious where he beats you all, call the police, as a man/father/husband there is no excuse for mental/physical inhibition
There is too much at stake and this is very serious
Talking does nothing, hes too stubborn. He sometimes recognizes he has a problem but then its right back down to it. He spent the last month or so not drinking for example and now hes back to it again.
Exhange his Alcohol bottles with Laxatives.
Too busy to bother anyone again.
Jokes aside , like have you tried talking to him? Or some elder family tried?
Everyone tried to talk to him but he doesnt care, its killing me to see him destroy his body and our lives like this.
There are 3 paths you can take
1. Be direct tell him how it is and how you feel, fight him if you have to
2. Seek help be it a counselor or police or another authority figure an aunt or uncle if you have one, people who can either get him into rehab or get you and the rest of your family safely away from him
3. Pack some bags and move away, just leave don't say good bye don't give him a chance to try and guilt trip you or your family into staying
3 is the hardest to do because I dont want to abandon him.
Sorry to hear that, its a terrible situation to be in. I would probably move away.
Yeah I know its the best option but its hard to do because Im afraid of what might happen to him if hes left alone.
Is the abuse primarily mental or does he also strike you and your family?. Do you feel there is a threat on your lives, like could he take it that far or are you confident he wouldn't?. Does he have any prior arrests or run ins with the law; any rehab facilities or interventions he's been apart of?. Also how long has this been going on?.
Its mostly mental, he causes huge scenes at home with my mom and sis and just made the environement here a living hell.
And no hes hasnt done anything bad, hes a gentle soul but he becomes someone else when he's drunk and its killing me slowly to see him like this.
I have lost the taste for living because of this stuff.