Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?

Monkey D Theories

Monkey D Theories

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#202
#202
Honest to god most of the women in friends with are people who “friendzoned” me.

It’s not really a bad thing. At least people like you enough to be your friend.

Plus having female friends can be useful. You could in theory network with them to meet more single women.
 
Okamakama

Okamakama

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#206
Daniel said:
Are you ready to detach yourself from the existing "relationship" if she rejects your feelings?

That is the hardest question to answer for a lot of people that struggle
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My answer is yes. If you love someone, then tell them, I say. If the friendship is meant to last outside of the sexual and romantic tension post-rejection then it will. Most importantly, through taking chances (and failing) you actually become better at bouncing back, so to speak. Living in fear of rejection is the absolute worst. It's worse than the actual rejection.
 
Brush D. Teeth

Brush D. Teeth

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#211
Cruxroux said:
Personally speaking I'm not opting for relationship anymore (I used think that 6 months ago). Found someone good , cultured and mannered.
Trust me my whole relationship history is so pathetic , women ended up cheating most of the time , validation and attention is to women what porn is to men. They can barely live without it.
There was no accountablity at all.
They blame their traumas in the end , and traumas are trend these days. I cheated because my uncle expired before I was born (my ex reasoning to cheating). And i was supposed to or expected to accept that because what else could I do. I got legal warning when I tried to hold her accoutable for it. (Charges being - mental trauma).
My current one is following law and in practice , helped me out of it , luckily no actions were ever taken.

I see so many men struggling from this on internet everyday , reddit/quora everywhere.

I found these golden words there
" Accountability is Kryptonite to Women ".
They know very well , they can get away with anything how law and legal system is getting designed now.

I'm not generalising every women into this , My current one isn't that kind either. Don't make this some hate comment Gainsy women.
But think of this as a general warning.
Because majority of women will be like this , if you want to know the number , see men around you who are addicted to porn , equate it to women needing attention and validation from multiple sources.
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Lmao everything today is legally accountable, even if you dump someone when they cheat. In France it isn't even legal to do a paternity test, even if you do it abroad.
Btw yeah dating is much more difficult due to flings becoming the norm and social media making it easier for a certain "segment of the population" to get hot sexual partners.
 
K!NG HARA$H!MA

K!NG HARA$H!MA

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#212
Brush D. Teeth said:
Lmao everything today is legally accountable, even if you dump someone when they cheat. In France it isn't even legal to do a paternity test, even if you do it abroad.
Btw yeah dating is much more difficult due to flings becoming the norm and social media making it easier for a certain "segment of the population" to get hot sexual partners.
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Why it isn't legal?

Too much bastards son's that would ruin society?
 
NAMELESS

NAMELESS

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Okamakama said:
My answer is yes. If you love someone, then tell them, I say. If the friendship is meant to last outside of the sexual and romantic tension post-rejection then it will. Most importantly, through taking chances (and failing) you actually become better at bouncing back, so to speak. Living in fear of rejection is the absolute worst. It's worse than the actual rejection.
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I love you,Okama:sweat:
 
NAMELESS

NAMELESS

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#218
MangoSenpai said:
I was mostly refering to the Dating side of things, I like to believe I have friends that I've made along the way

:willight:

Alas, us mortal men are fickle creatures
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oh man,some of my pals are taking the dirt nap right now:pepemotion:
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Brush D. Teeth said:
Lmao everything today is legally accountable, even if you dump someone when they cheat. In France it isn't even legal to do a paternity test, even if you do it abroad.
Btw yeah dating is much more difficult due to flings becoming the norm and social media making it easier for a certain "segment of the population" to get hot sexual partners.
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This is bullshit. How the fuck will i defend myself if i get accused of being the father of the kids of some random women?
 
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