Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?

Reborn

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Guys listen

He wasn't this insane before

Law and kidd getting rekt destroyed him

And, to make it worse, he got dumped by his Chinese gf for his Tate wank

So, please be kind

He's a good soul

Just a lost cause​
Wait she really dumped him for liking Tate? And he STILL likes and worships him?
Next level dick riding. Man is riding him like a god damned rollercoaster
 

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I genuinely think you just shouldn't take any dating advice from people like him
Or people who act like they're dating experts in general
It's usually always bull shit
Always hated puas and what not
Dating advices generally never works anyway.


To give advice, one must know two people very well as personality of people differs and also be aware of situation/chemistry between them.
 
Dating advices generally never works anyway.


To give advice, one must know two people very well as personality of people differs and also be aware of situation/chemistry between them.
It's not even necessary
I think you should just be kind, rational and loving
That's really all I can say but I think it's basically all that needs to be said
I entered my relationship with almost no advice or help at all and I've done pretty well so far
I don't think it's as complicated as some people think, it's obviously not easy either though
 
Do you have any advice for relationships/marriage?
Not particularly anything different than I've already said on this thread. My only new advice is to not listen to people who don't have relationships - both PUA and long-time single individuals. Having a fulfilling partnership is different than one night stands and casual flings.

Both partners need to be willing to give up everything on behalf of their partners well being. Example: If the Women is sick, the man needs to care of her, the house and the kids. He needs to sacrifice his spare time for that. Both of them need to do the best they can to please and help each other.
Here here. I do plenty of things I dislike for her; and she for me. Ultimately, that is what having a partnership is about.

Your objection comes from a heavy-handed response to the word "slave". To serve one another like a slave would be to do anything, regardless if it's what you want, to ensure your partner is happy. Do you think I enjoy having to constantly carry everything? Go on long walks after a hard day at work when I just want to sleep, all because she wants to feel safe outside at night? Sometimes it can be nice; but it can also be burdensome. I willingly do it for her as her needs are more important than my own to me. Some would call that serving as if a slave; but it's different, as it's a mutual dedication to each other's needs/desires.
 
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Not particularly anything different than I've already said on this thread. My only new advice is to not listen to people who don't have relationships - both PUA and long-time single individuals. Having a fulfilling partnership is different than one night stands and casual flings.



Here here. I do plenty of things I dislike for her; and she for me. Ultimately, that is what having a partnership is about.



Your objection comes from a heavy-handed response to the word "slave". To serve one another like a slave would be to do anything, regardless if it's what you want, to ensure your partner is happy. Do you think I enjoy having to constantly carry everything? Go on long walks after a hard day at work when I just want to sleep, all because she wants to feel safe outside at night? Sometimes it can be nice; but it can also be burdensome. I willingly do it for her as her needs are more important than my own to me. Some would call that serving as if a slave; but it's different, as it's a mutual dedication to each other's needs/desires.
I already don't listen to those types of people for two reasons
One: I find them corny and unreliable
Two: I'm also not really the type of person who wants one night stands and what not, I wouldn't buy a prostitute either, I think sex should be more meaningful than just two people helping eachother get relief and pleasure.
 
I already don't listen to those types of people for two reasons
One: I find them corny and unreliable
Two: I'm also not really the type of person who wants one night stands and what not, I wouldn't buy a prostitute either, I think sex should be more meaningful than just two people helping eachother get relief and pleasure.
You used to be in a LD relationship IIRC -- we talked about that in this thread before. What changed if you don't mind me asking? Or are you still together?
 
They definitely are, thanks for that
I hope the same for you too
That's wonderful news my dude. You met up in person yet?

Things are going perfect. We tried for kids last month but it didn't work out - there was a moment where we thought we got lucky. We're just going to keep trying until we succeed. Hopefully god will bless our family. :)
 
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