Reactance because of activism is not a thing is 99% of cases.
Which is not possible to do when the first thing an incel says to you when you try to be empathic is how sexist you are because you think women have it harder.
You do not understand that the lack of empathy is not something that is done because we can't do this on the left, it's not something that is done because it can't work from us.
Empathy will only work when Incels think their are talking to someone with a similar vision of the world. or when they really try to question their own behaviors.
Also, you really do not get the paradox of tolerance. People are not here on the left to be nice with incels, people are here to protect women FROM THEM. Go have tolerance and empathy for those poor souls on your own time if you have the energy to deal with them, don't ask us, especially women to do that when we are already fighting for our lives in most cases.
Unless I missed something, I don't think Marxism is about oppressing the rich, it's simply meant to prevent the bourgeoisie to come in power.
They do not impose anything. They simply stop the abuse from happening.
Indeed. Which is a legitimate things to do. But we have to be careful with that assertion because it can be used as a reason for oppression. Israel is doing just that right now.
Rather than talking about who is attacking who and depoliticizing the point by making it an individual problem, we need to repoliticize it and understand the dynamics of domination in presence.
For example, in the case of Incels, men are in a state of domination over women, the reaction of women and leftists who fight with them is therefore legitimate. Same of Israel, Israel is the oppressor in the relation of domination between itself and Palestinians, therefore that action of resistance is legitimate.
Which is not possible to do when the first thing an incel says to you when you try to be empathic is how sexist you are because you think women have it harder.
You do not understand that the lack of empathy is not something that is done because we can't do this on the left, it's not something that is done because it can't work from us.
Empathy will only work when Incels think their are talking to someone with a similar vision of the world. or when they really try to question their own behaviors.
Also, you really do not get the paradox of tolerance. People are not here on the left to be nice with incels, people are here to protect women FROM THEM. Go have tolerance and empathy for those poor souls on your own time if you have the energy to deal with them, don't ask us, especially women to do that when we are already fighting for our lives in most cases.
Unless I missed something, I don't think Marxism is about oppressing the rich, it's simply meant to prevent the bourgeoisie to come in power.
They do not impose anything. They simply stop the abuse from happening.
Indeed. Which is a legitimate things to do. But we have to be careful with that assertion because it can be used as a reason for oppression. Israel is doing just that right now.
Rather than talking about who is attacking who and depoliticizing the point by making it an individual problem, we need to repoliticize it and understand the dynamics of domination in presence.
For example, in the case of Incels, men are in a state of domination over women, the reaction of women and leftists who fight with them is therefore legitimate. Same of Israel, Israel is the oppressor in the relation of domination between itself and Palestinians, therefore that action of resistance is legitimate.
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The reason why there is that response to incels is because it’s outright negative and gross behavior. There is no excuse to be bitter and having mean spirited and sexist ideologies and supporting politics that oppresses people. Not generalizing but look at America right now.
Plenty of help and conversations happens with these people but they refuse like it’s a ideology. Instead they dig deeper, identify with it, build their politics with it. That’s why people are fed up.
Plus a lot of their thing is mocking others. So what do you mean?
You act like anti social person? That’s fine and something else. But act like an anti social person via online AND act like an asshole? Then sorry no sympathy there.
Yes we live in an increasingly lonely time but let’s not pretend these kind of loners are a new thing.
Plenty of help and conversations happens with these people but they refuse like it’s a ideology. Instead they dig deeper, identify with it, build their politics with it. That’s why people are fed up.
Plus a lot of their thing is mocking others. So what do you mean?
You act like anti social person? That’s fine and something else. But act like an anti social person via online AND act like an asshole? Then sorry no sympathy there.
Yes we live in an increasingly lonely time but let’s not pretend these kind of loners are a new thing.