Okay, so your belief is that it is inherent to our society. Doesn't that mean we are predisposed to be a patriarchal society? Similar to other big apes?
On the contrary. Remember what I repeated a hundred of times a week ago:
We and our societies are the products of the material condition of existences.
Patriarchy didn't rose because we are biologically bad people or because bad people made it rise. It rose because of the development of our systems. Specifically during the start of neolithic and the development of agriculture, ressources were appropriated by a few and labor started to be divided between sex.
From that point.. patriarchy went crazy. Here are example of very early on patriarcal systems:
Materialism and sociology allows us to understand patriarchy and the other major systems of oppression (capitalism / Systemic racism / ableism etc.) not as inherent result of our biology or bad behaviors but as constructed systems of domination made to favor people with more ressources than others.
This means that to destroy patriarchy, we must change our system. If we do that. You will see religion either disappear or transform into very inclusive system by themselves.
eh but there's literally no way to separate one from the other
Tell that to feminist queer muslims.