So someone has to show disgust for kinks in their entirety, every single one of them, to be kink shaming?
Just stop, your argument makes no sense, he kink shamed me, it's kind of f'd but also not as big of a deal as this has become, but the fact that you're making excuses for something so obviously kink shaming is annoying.
"I'm not kink shaming you for masochism, I just think that someone hurting you is morally repulsive" is the kind of shit you're trying to peddle. It doesn't matter if he has moral issue with my kink, that doesn't change the fact that it's kink shaming, it's just backstory on why he's kink shaming me.