Controversial Confessions.

Do you have so many to choose from?😒
Not really. But here goes one that ruined a friendship. I used to hook up with this friend of mine all the time, it was strictly sexual. After a couple of months she started dating one of my best friends so we left it at that. One night though, we where at this house party and she started hitting on me pretty hard. I told her I couldn't since she was dating one of my best friends but she assured me they had agreed on having an open relationship. After much deliberation I decided to do it and we had sex that night. A week later my friend called me up furious after finding out what had happened. He told me she had lied and they had never agreed upon having an open relationship. Me and my friend made up years later and agreed that she was the one at fault but I still feel awful about it to this very day.
 

Junatic

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Holy fuck that's horrific and tragic. I can't even imagine how upsetting and thus traumatic even that must have been for your mother?

Jesus christ, that 2nd one too...I've heard stories like that online in other places and over the news too but still...fucking psychopaths/sickos man....I really wish for equal punishment for scum like that, sigh. I can't even find words, it's just fucking barbaric!



You were asking someone for a filler post here and I saw Junatics post as the last one, so I thought to let you know haha. I should have mentioned!




Yeah, she was very shaken, but she recovered. She's a tough woman, the kind of woman who got pregnant at 22, left NYC 2 years later to move to a city where she knew nobody and still managed to finish med school while raisin me (ofc my dad was there to help her). Rly admire her, I wish I was as bright and strong as she is.

It's very frustrating when you try everything to help someone in distress and it makes no difference cause there's absolutely nth you can do, you're just powerless while watchin someone you care for suffer. It's a terrible feeling.
 
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Yeah, she was very shaken, but she recovered. She's a tough woman, the kind of woman who got pregnant at 22, left NYC 2 years later to move to a city where she knew nobody and still managed to finish med school while raisin me (ofc my dad was there to help her). Rly admire her, I wish I was as bright and strong as she is.

It's very frustrating when you try everything to help someone in distress and it makes no difference cause there's absolutely nth you can do, you're just powerless while watchin someone you care for suffer. It's a terrible feeling.
Sorry I forgot to respond. Thats an incredible accomplishment on her part, to finish something as truly demanding, difficult, stressful, time consuming by far as med school AND whilst having/raising you and all whilst in a new city by herself?! Ah your dad was there to her, thats genuinely great! Always nice to hear about great dads for a change instead! Your mum sounds like a superwoman though anyway!

I can imagine too, my mum had me at 20 and raised me mostly alone, in a new country by herself mostly alone too, with almost no support from my family, my dads family (who she had to go on the run from and escape too actually so its for the best) and I've always been burdened with the fact that by comparison, I've accomplished so little with my life and at 20 years old, all I "achieved" was the biggest mental breakdown of my life so far, lasting almost a year, self harm, suicidal tendencies, dropping out of university and everything else I was doing and losing my mind completely for a long time, weeeee!

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Sorry some bitterness from my past came out there lol.

I can understand though, it must be immense pressure on yourself to be as bright and strong as she is, as you said ofc, that burden of living in your parents' shadow and their accomplishments, especially their landmarks by certain ages. People can say "it doesnt matter" but it doesnt stop you being judged, criticised and people talking behind your back and complaining about you regardless.

But yeah, regarding what you said in the last part too, this song is extremely relatable and personal to me and I think you will find it very relatable too then?:



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I almost have too many to list tbh.

Really though, I'm a nice person who tries to help people and animals whenever I can. I never cause problems, and have a live and let live philosophy. I make an effort to understand anyone, and empathize with their situations.

That said. If you come after me, try to gaslight me, hurt someone I love, hurt animals, are a bully. I will come after you like vengeful spirit and ruin you with zero fks given. I am damned good at it because I can manipulate situations and people easily when I need to. It's not an ability I abuse, but people have learned the hard way when they try me.

One example. At a company I worked for years ago, I was a Sr. Supervisor. The company hired a new supervisor from another branch and could tell he wanted my job. He was lazy, sexist and underhanded af, few liked him. We clashed almost immediately. Well, he started spreading crazy lies about me to staff and my boss. I tried to point out to my boss that these rumors only started at the time he hired the new guy, but my boss took his side (it was sexist mentality tbh). The a-hole was bragging that he was about to get me fired and have my job. Fed up, I decided to get my revenge.

I had some loyal people keep an eye on him to report back to me. Lo and behold, found out he was doing pot (joints) in the parking lot. Gold, but not enough to satisfy my blood lust. He always parked out of the main parking area so he could not be easily seen to smoke. Unknownst to him, I knew people that dealt in pot. He always left his keys near my desk, so when he took his lunch break I snatched his keys and carefully planted a felony amount of pot under his car seat. I had called the Drug Task Force anonymously to report him as a drug dealer. The next day when he arrived for work 2 undercover police cars were there and confronted him, then a police car with a drug sniffing dog. They easily found his joint because he was stupid af. I saw him frantically telling them that's all he had. They eventually had the dog sniff out his car and found the pot I had hidden. He was arrested. He actually had to do jail time for a few months, not to mention the huge fine. No guilt whatsoever, he started it, but I finished it.

As for my boss, I knew his boss didn't like him much. So I made sure to report to him that my boss was treating me unfairly, and of course told him of all the shady shit my boss did behind his back that he wasn't supposed to (I had documentation to prove it). My boss got in a lot of trouble with corporate HR, and was on the verge of being fired and knew it, so he quit.
 
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