God neither stands in the way of science or for organised religion
Not a single prophet supported the states of the temples etc. and God is against the people who use his name for bad deeds. God even warns us from them.
see, that's what YOU say
And those 'bad people' you mentioned would use god for what they think are'good deeds' aka killing non believers, doing horrible things to children etc
When a person's sole experience with religion are horrible and traumatic they won't take their time to consider that there may be good religious people.
And they have zero obligations to do so.
So please don't feel offended when somebody makes ablunt statement such as 'I hate god' .
You don't know these people's past.
I think you are a reasonable person who is understanding of people's struggles and suffering.
So please don't take such statements personally