So threat of violence is social pressure to you?
Its a radical form of social pressure but it is still social pressure yes. This is how human societies work.
Social pressure is not always violent and is not always negative. It's just a result of human being social animals.
The point here is that you are ALWAYS under social pressure, simply because you are a human with values living among other humans.
So when someone say "LGBT+ are pressuring on society", they usually forget that they do the same too and are under constant social pressure themself without even noticing it.
So the real problem is not the social pressure, its you guys not understanding:
1. That its a very weak social pressure, so you are pretty much in a state of moral panic for nothing
2. The concept and the importance of representation in society for minorities
3. That this little pressure is actually positive
4. That this little pressure is simply the result of people being more and more aware of social problems
Conclusion: There is nothing to fear, nothing to be afraid of. LGBT+ and feminist are not some powerful lobby or threat, those are just people who want to be accepted and want to make a better world. For them AND for you as well.