Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?
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Agreed
Yea then it's just the case of the parents seeing their kids as trophies, when it comes to environments like that it doesn't matter what you accomplish, it's never enough.
Sad stuff, I saw a video of this little chinese girl complaining to her dad like she was a mature adult, kids are put through so much stress in these cultures and I guess it makes sense given how competitive those societies are (the over population doesn't help). Suicide rate is high for a reason in a lot of cases.
Sad stuff, I saw a video of this little chinese girl complaining to her dad like she was a mature adult, kids are put through so much stress in these cultures and I guess it makes sense given how competitive those societies are (the over population doesn't help). Suicide rate is high for a reason in a lot of cases.
It's kind of everywhere.
Stress and pressure are part and parcel of life.
Problem is we are never taught on how to manage stress and pressure.
And, to make it worse, people whom you look upto to understand - friends, family don't really understand it due to lack of self experience or mistaking it as excuses or lack of will power and gradually casting such people away resulting into people stop venting it out and thus getting suffocated from within.
More it happens more people starts feeling lonely and soon some give up.
Suicides happens not just because of stress but also because we fail as friends and family.
There is a reason why mental health is big concern because it often goes unnoticed due to lack of any visible physical symptoms
Stress and pressure are part and parcel of life.
Problem is we are never taught on how to manage stress and pressure.
And, to make it worse, people whom you look upto to understand - friends, family don't really understand it due to lack of self experience or mistaking it as excuses or lack of will power and gradually casting such people away resulting into people stop venting it out and thus getting suffocated from within.
More it happens more people starts feeling lonely and soon some give up.
Suicides happens not just because of stress but also because we fail as friends and family.
There is a reason why mental health is big concern because it often goes unnoticed due to lack of any visible physical symptoms
Internet is not real life.
All the negativity comes from the internet and is amplified there.
Its shit alright. Just not as bad as the internet tells you.
You best chances are, as was always the case, not to be a shut in.
Good luck.
Only if you fucked up beforehand. Pick wisely and this will never be an issue.
All the negativity comes from the internet and is amplified there.
Its shit alright. Just not as bad as the internet tells you.
You best chances are, as was always the case, not to be a shut in.
Good luck.
Only if you fucked up beforehand. Pick wisely and this will never be an issue.
There is Always things that gonna fucked up in every family
whether its about Money, Lifestyle, Lack of Communication, Debt or even simple Mistakes like burned out when u are in relationship which could make one of the couple to cheat.
The Only thing that can overcome that is when this couple trust each other, Understand their feelings, searching for solution when there is a mistakes, and Move on.
Those things Are Hard to do.
Those thing happening on my neighbourhood nad my family too
whether its about Money, Lifestyle, Lack of Communication, Debt or even simple Mistakes like burned out when u are in relationship which could make one of the couple to cheat.
The Only thing that can overcome that is when this couple trust each other, Understand their feelings, searching for solution when there is a mistakes, and Move on.
Those things Are Hard to do.
Those thing happening on my neighbourhood nad my family too
Bruh We don't marry a whore in here, the hell
We Don't mess with Marriage here
Its different than west
I live in Asia especially ASEAN where people is still being decent and kind enough, people still comply with regulations and laws
As i said earlier Dating isn't hard, u clearly can date with anyone nowadays
But when u goin to Marriage and gonna build a good family, staying so long, and overcoming everything until death do them apart Its the Hard part
Its Easy things to said but thats hard when u do it
I said this cuz i knew and it happen to my family
We Don't mess with Marriage here
Its different than west
I live in Asia especially ASEAN where people is still being decent and kind enough, people still comply with regulations and laws
As i said earlier Dating isn't hard, u clearly can date with anyone nowadays
But when u goin to Marriage and gonna build a good family, staying so long, and overcoming everything until death do them apart Its the Hard part
Its Easy things to said but thats hard when u do it
I said this cuz i knew and it happen to my family
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I don’t see how women in Asia can be that much better or different from women in the west.
Like yes, people in india tend to be more traditional. But if that’s what you’re looking for, you can still get that in America.
I think a lot of this perception comes from racist stereotypes of how Asian women are supposedly “more obedient”. As well as western men wanting to leverage their wealth to attract poorer women.
Like yes, people in india tend to be more traditional. But if that’s what you’re looking for, you can still get that in America.
I think a lot of this perception comes from racist stereotypes of how Asian women are supposedly “more obedient”. As well as western men wanting to leverage their wealth to attract poorer women.