Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?

It's called the Sanji syndrom
Then you don't know.

I said : each other and simultaneously. This is a thing that most experience in their lives.

It can also happen with a picture and when the other person sees you, they feel the same thing. Magical.


This happens only once and this isn't even "physical attraction".
 
Then you don't know.
It was a joke lol

I know it exist. It happens to me everytime I see a beautiful woman. But to call it love is a stretch. It's more of a rapid feedback loop of confirmation bias and halo effect with the mind that make us think that we are falling in love.

But if you really have evidences of people having all the symptoms of love at first sight go for it, I'm willing to open my mind. I'm just really sceptikal about it.
 
It was a joke lol

I know it exist. It happens to me everytime I see a beautiful woman. But to call it love is a stretch. It's more of a rapid feedback loop of confirmation bias and halo effect with the mind that make us think that we are falling in love.
You say you joking and then drop that it happens to you "every time", well, that's not why I'm talking about at all.

But if you really have evidences of people having all the symptoms of love at first sight go for it, I'm willing to open my mind. I'm just really sceptikal about it.
Evidence ? I don't know if there are anything like brainscans but we have more than enough people who testified about this throughout history and modern times. I never talk about that because people who don't know make you sound like some kind of freak lol.

The people who elaborated and wrote Greek Mythology based it on real life just like most of their mythology.
 
You say you joking and then drop that it happens to you "every time", well, that's not why I'm talking about at all.
The Sanji syndrom happens to me everytime. Love ? Not really. Sanji doesn't love, he is just highly attracted to new beautiful faces.

we have more than enough people who testified
I can't base a belief on a large number of people just sayin stuff. Especially when we know that we can alter our memories of an event

The people who elaborated and wrote Greek Mythology based it on real life just like most of their mythology.
Yes. I'm not saying there is no phenomenon at play, what I say is that it might be different that what love is, so I'm still skeptical about it.
 
Itt the guy who never leaves his house is fighting the perpetually single tate fan about dating

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Yeah... Some people here are b*tching all day long about the hardship of being a man who can't talk to girls or not being able to meet a girl and the horrible effect of celibacy.

Meanwhile, I've been alone for 12 years without any problems. Guess who are the snowflakes...

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Nah it's fine, i just replied to the previous now deleted post on a whim and there's a general political discussion and even general chat for a reason. This thread should stay being focused on relationships and advices.
 
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