So happy to see someone say/type this. You dont have to change your gender for admiring someone of the opposite gender! As for the nickname. It reminds me when the elementary school girls write 'Mrs "boy I crush on first and last name". I dont know Japanese culture, but she cant just proclaim to be in a clan, right? She has to marry in to be part of it right? Honestly, this sounds like a stupid way for Oda to write himself out of Ace telling the WBP about Wano