Thats not even the case, the fact he can't hit women, but actually manage to make them end up liking him shows his charisma, there are several times where Sanji put his life on the line and made the biggest efforts to save crewmates/allies more than anyone in the crew, while Zoro and Luffy they aren't smart like Sanji or they are busy doing nothing or being idiots stuck in chimneys.
We didn't even reached that kind of situation where Sanji is towards a woman and his friend is going to die in front of him and he needs to choose to attack a woman or not.
You're creating a situation where the character X or Y will supposedly fail for the sake of saying they are bad.
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It's obviously a GaG, why did he scared Nami just by looking at her during "Luffy vs Sanji" if he is his "slave"? Whats even the last time Sanji said something like that and it wasn't an obvious GaG or perv fetish?
Sanji is prideful, he is known as Black Leg, he rejects being part of his biological family and makes very clear why he is so much different from them. A major plot of WCI is exactly this, he has pride of who he is, from being a chef to being called Black Leg and completely refusing to share the same ideals as the Vinsmokes do, why do you think he hates when someone mentions him with Judge?
This shows how Sanji will create a whole new meaning for who he is and how he is known and will be known throughout the world, even using what is his birthright (Raid Suit for example) he wants to create a whole new meaning for being a Vinsmoke, and surely he will end up being as the Vinsmoke completely different, stronger and prideful than any of his family members.
Zeff is actually the guy who took care of him since he was a kid and he see Sanji as someone special since ever:
You're quit messing up the meaning of "stand above the others", this could mean a lot of things at once. WB saying "Im Whitebeard" could easily mean absolutely nothing to being a CoC, he is praising himself just like pirates normally do, it wasn't even his main goal to set sail, you're trying to say Sanji doesn't have this trait (which he clearly does and its shown at many moments in the series) while for example, Sanji hates people who treats food like trash, thats actually one of the major plots at Wano, and thats one of the main reasons of why Zoro and Sanji did reached this point here: