If you think so low of Japan then I can´t help wondering what you are thinking of other countries?
Well, back in the german board where I was active before I came to Worstgen there was a german girl that emigrated to Japan, lived there for several years, had a whole blog about all her experiences there, told us stories about her sitting for hours in Maid cafes and all, she absolutely loved the Japanese culture. Her experiences are completely different from your views.
There are negative points like the high suicide rate because of the work circumstances and all but you can find bad things at lot of countries too. Japan is not the world´s center point of sexism or racism. Generalization is also not cool, I wouldn´t like it if someone said that all germans have to be nazis just because of our past for example.
I never said that Japan should be put above other cultures or countries but you made it sound like as if Japan had to be the worst country out of all. Which is simply not the case. Look at Iran how those mullahs treat their women, to name only one of the places where women still have almost no rights. I don´t want to downtalk other countries, I really don´t want to but in India as a young girl you really shouldn´t ride a public train because the risk of being raped is way too high there. On the other hand India has some good sides too, so it´s not always all light and dark, there´s just really much grey everywhere. Even in Germany there are places where it has become risky to walk outside alone at nighttime if you don´t want to become a victim of a crime, including rape shit.