Why do guys use Dating Coaches?
- Thread starter Midnight Delight
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Oh I know, I actually follow a dating coach who is a woman, but EVEN her is actually answering the wrong questions. Following a dating coach where you are in the situation you feel miserable because you can't have women is the equivalent of following a sportive youtuber to lose weight when you are in obesity. It's completely missunderstanding the problem and you will most likely end up with bad habits than good ones.
Dating coatch should be here to give you the icing on top of your approach toward people, in finite, we don't need dating coatch. We just need to learn how to live with ourselves.
Psychatrist are here for that. There is no shame in seeking help.
That's what I'm doing on this forum, I'm proposing them another way to look at life, peacefully, but there is a limit at things we should accept.
I'm sure you are aware of the overton windows, right ?
In short, we should not tolerate everything just because people are sometimes "missguided".
No we don't, and women don't either. They and the one they follow like Tate, are the one responsible for their toxicity. Not us. Plus here, I don't see anyone treating anyone "miserable" because they didn't get someone. On the contrary, I see criticism because those people are being deeply sexist weither they are aware of it or not.
No one here (at least no one I saw) ridiculed anyone because they seek help. . In fact i'm well aware of the danger of being and feeling alone, things that can lead to depression. That's why I always say that there is no shame in seeking help.
Careful tho, because depression is NOT AN EXCUSE to being a bigot or a sexist.
And that what we are denouncing here.
Dating coatch should be here to give you the icing on top of your approach toward people, in finite, we don't need dating coatch. We just need to learn how to live with ourselves.
Psychatrist are here for that. There is no shame in seeking help.
That's what I'm doing on this forum, I'm proposing them another way to look at life, peacefully, but there is a limit at things we should accept.
I'm sure you are aware of the overton windows, right ?
In short, we should not tolerate everything just because people are sometimes "missguided".
No we don't, and women don't either. They and the one they follow like Tate, are the one responsible for their toxicity. Not us. Plus here, I don't see anyone treating anyone "miserable" because they didn't get someone. On the contrary, I see criticism because those people are being deeply sexist weither they are aware of it or not.
No one here (at least no one I saw) ridiculed anyone because they seek help. . In fact i'm well aware of the danger of being and feeling alone, things that can lead to depression. That's why I always say that there is no shame in seeking help.
Careful tho, because depression is NOT AN EXCUSE to being a bigot or a sexist.
And that what we are denouncing here.
Not quite. Health and fitness is entirely dependent on you and how you feel about yourself. You have the completely to change your appearance and feel good about yourself, to the point you don't need any validation from others. You get a true sense of progress with how your body changes and feels.
A DATING coach however, is solely sought by men who are having trouble with women. It's basically "teach me how be appealing to women or how to pick up women", when it's completely dependent on individual preferences.
A DATING coach however, is solely sought by men who are having trouble with women. It's basically "teach me how be appealing to women or how to pick up women", when it's completely dependent on individual preferences.
We differ in mentality (tho its obvious that you are an insecure and emotional husby gambare) and you deem that enough reason to consider us sexist?you have been going all out with nonsesical hyperboles today sir.
Just coz we want to provide for women who aren't just mentally shut bots like you exaggerate then to be but rather those that fulfil their roles in this sacred relationship. This whole time you have been exaggerating what "submissive" really is and equating it to slavery becuz you have this inbuilt perception of what submission is from whatever tf you pertain your rationale to. Anywhere there is an Authority, there is submission. MEN HAVE BEEN HEAD OF THE HOUSHOLDS SINCE THE BEGINNING OF TIMES AND STILL DO becuz the vice versa isn't possible unless you wanna take the role of the submissive wife yourself Mr.husby
There are some very crucial reasons why ONLY MEN IN MARRIAGES TAKE THE LEAD mr husby ig you have forgotten
- Financial
- Security
- Objective decision making
- Physicality
- Upholder of moral standards in the house
- Maintainers of Wives ( periods, pregnancies and what it consequents. )
- Maintaining an environment where she lives conducively with her kids
And much more nuances
But you seem to be in denial... Makes me wonder if its flipped on your ends mate and you're typing from a 4 wheeler trolly
A woman has a right over her man and vice versa, wanting someone obedient over rebellious is a palatable thing and its fair given what a man does for his family.. The **** can't come back to an inconsiderate witch bruv
You are pathetically picking on folks and labeling them sexist for wanting a peaceful life
Its absolutely disturbing and diabolical that you are assuming people want waman as slaves to mistreat and fuck for wanting the bare minimum they deserve in this life to loose their virginity to a wife they would care for.
Its all your wicked mentality and how you stereotype people like that.. Stay delusional for all we care.
If you're sensitive about your wife you could be giving much more profoind input than wetting yourself on your couch having virgins express what they want in a wife.. If you're that sensitive to this talk just coz you have a wife then you can peacefully piss off and learn to have a logical rational opinion and not am emotional one.
Well guess you're not much of an objective thinker.. Ig you take thatt from your partner.
I dont really care but don't strawman because you're sensitive
Just coz we want to provide for women who aren't just mentally shut bots like you exaggerate then to be but rather those that fulfil their roles in this sacred relationship. This whole time you have been exaggerating what "submissive" really is and equating it to slavery becuz you have this inbuilt perception of what submission is from whatever tf you pertain your rationale to. Anywhere there is an Authority, there is submission. MEN HAVE BEEN HEAD OF THE HOUSHOLDS SINCE THE BEGINNING OF TIMES AND STILL DO becuz the vice versa isn't possible unless you wanna take the role of the submissive wife yourself Mr.husby
There are some very crucial reasons why ONLY MEN IN MARRIAGES TAKE THE LEAD mr husby ig you have forgotten
- Financial
- Security
- Objective decision making
- Physicality
- Upholder of moral standards in the house
- Maintainers of Wives ( periods, pregnancies and what it consequents. )
- Maintaining an environment where she lives conducively with her kids
And much more nuances
But you seem to be in denial... Makes me wonder if its flipped on your ends mate and you're typing from a 4 wheeler trolly
A woman has a right over her man and vice versa, wanting someone obedient over rebellious is a palatable thing and its fair given what a man does for his family.. The **** can't come back to an inconsiderate witch bruv
You are pathetically picking on folks and labeling them sexist for wanting a peaceful life
Its absolutely disturbing and diabolical that you are assuming people want waman as slaves to mistreat and fuck for wanting the bare minimum they deserve in this life to loose their virginity to a wife they would care for.
Its all your wicked mentality and how you stereotype people like that.. Stay delusional for all we care.
If you're sensitive about your wife you could be giving much more profoind input than wetting yourself on your couch having virgins express what they want in a wife.. If you're that sensitive to this talk just coz you have a wife then you can peacefully piss off and learn to have a logical rational opinion and not am emotional one.
Well guess you're not much of an objective thinker.. Ig you take thatt from your partner.
I dont really care but don't strawman because you're sensitive
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Bro my dad is old school and extremely conservative and even he would give you this look 
I have plenty of insecurities but working in the industry I work in right now and my ideology ain't part of them.
BOTH my parents worked hand in hand to create a company. My mom was a provider, even more than my dad. For someone like you to call me pathetic is truly the epitome of incelry. I kind of dig it tho cause I know deep down you know you're a hateful little boy who hates the fact that women nowadays won't give him the time of day due to his outdated ideology. In reality I'm chill, I make good bread, it just so happens that my girl makes more, and that's perfectly fine. I'll still be doing my own shit regardless.
I have plenty of insecurities but working in the industry I work in right now and my ideology ain't part of them.
BOTH my parents worked hand in hand to create a company. My mom was a provider, even more than my dad. For someone like you to call me pathetic is truly the epitome of incelry. I kind of dig it tho cause I know deep down you know you're a hateful little boy who hates the fact that women nowadays won't give him the time of day due to his outdated ideology. In reality I'm chill, I make good bread, it just so happens that my girl makes more, and that's perfectly fine. I'll still be doing my own shit regardless.
Bro my dad is old school and extremely conservative and even he would give you this look
I have plenty of insecurities but working in the industry I work in right now and my ideology ain't part of them.
BOTH my parents worked hand in hand to create a company. My mom was a provider, even more than my dad. For someone like you to call me pathetic is truly the epitome of incelry. I kind of dig it tho cause I know deep down you know you're a hateful little boy who hates the fact that women nowadays won't give him the time of day due to his outdated ideology. In reality I'm chill, I make good bread, it just so happens that my girl makes more, and that's perfectly fine. I'll still be doing my own shit regardless.
I have plenty of insecurities but working in the industry I work in right now and my ideology ain't part of them.
BOTH my parents worked hand in hand to create a company. My mom was a provider, even more than my dad. For someone like you to call me pathetic is truly the epitome of incelry. I kind of dig it tho cause I know deep down you know you're a hateful little boy who hates the fact that women nowadays won't give him the time of day due to his outdated ideology. In reality I'm chill, I make good bread, it just so happens that my girl makes more, and that's perfectly fine. I'll still be doing my own shit regardless.
*reading comprehension *
There's always more to an issue than your personal experiences. It's wrong to try and judge the world from your own custom filters. People don't seek help only if they feel miserable. Sometimes, it could be as simple as the guy not having proper exposure to women to approach one, or sometimes it's the fear of rejection. Even if they're in a miserable state, they're at least trying to learn what they're lacking by consulting others. It's not a bad thing.
It's at least better than staying in your basement and blaming women for it. Whether someone is qualified to seek help or not is not up to you to decide. And it's funny how you're mocking people for seeking help while sitting here and dictating how they should live their own lives.
Sure, it's advisable but I am afraid it's not up to you to decide who they should consult. Different people have different circumstances.
I guess we have different ideas of what encouragement is. Whether something or someone should be tolerated or not based on the kind of guidance they're given is a subjective matter. There's nothing inherently intolerable about people seeking help when they can't get what they want. It's no different from how you'd reach out to people for advice when nothing seems to be working in your professional life, for instance.
Whether you're getting good advice from the right person or not is a different story altogether. You're free to discourage people from consulting certain kinds of advisors—you can tell people to not take any dating advice from Andrew Tate, for example— but you can't outright bash and attack them just for seeking help. That's downright asinine.
We as in society—it's not you, me, or women in general. You're openly bashing men just for seeking help with dates, so you're definitely a part of the problem whether you wanna admit it or not.
Lol, you're literally discouraging people not to get help by calling them sexist or incels without even having an idea of who they're consulting or for what they're consulting who they're consulting.
You're right but it's equally true that depression is what's turning these people into bigots or sexist in most cases, so the least we could do is not help the potential sexist people by attacking them when they're trying to get help, which might prevent them from turning sexist.
It's at least better than staying in your basement and blaming women for it. Whether someone is qualified to seek help or not is not up to you to decide. And it's funny how you're mocking people for seeking help while sitting here and dictating how they should live their own lives.
Sure, it's advisable but I am afraid it's not up to you to decide who they should consult. Different people have different circumstances.
I guess we have different ideas of what encouragement is. Whether something or someone should be tolerated or not based on the kind of guidance they're given is a subjective matter. There's nothing inherently intolerable about people seeking help when they can't get what they want. It's no different from how you'd reach out to people for advice when nothing seems to be working in your professional life, for instance.
Whether you're getting good advice from the right person or not is a different story altogether. You're free to discourage people from consulting certain kinds of advisors—you can tell people to not take any dating advice from Andrew Tate, for example— but you can't outright bash and attack them just for seeking help. That's downright asinine.
We as in society—it's not you, me, or women in general. You're openly bashing men just for seeking help with dates, so you're definitely a part of the problem whether you wanna admit it or not.
Lol, you're literally discouraging people not to get help by calling them sexist or incels without even having an idea of who they're consulting or for what they're consulting who they're consulting.
You're right but it's equally true that depression is what's turning these people into bigots or sexist in most cases, so the least we could do is not help the potential sexist people by attacking them when they're trying to get help, which might prevent them from turning sexist.
being head of the house is not taking the lead in general?
Did i ever deny that wives contribute to marriages too? Am i missing somewhere where your wife take the lead instead generally?
And let's not forget this is a red herring to your adhomine against people wanting decent wives.
Did i ever deny that wives contribute to marriages too? Am i missing somewhere where your wife take the lead instead generally?
And let's not forget this is a red herring to your adhomine against people wanting decent wives.
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Ironic thing is that regardless of what their gender is, they most likely get infinitely more pussy than you ever will.
You don't consider folks associating to your deranged logic decent.. Then that's one heck of a compliment
And you sure like to put words in my mouth i never said that there can't be times where the wife is a better decision maker, better leader, be more enduring etc at times wherw the man is in a mental frenzy or other situations unless you wanna consider my words to pertain no exceptions coz you really wanna nail me down aye Lol
But again generally i maintain that men are the ones that lead by default.
And you sure like to put words in my mouth i never said that there can't be times where the wife is a better decision maker, better leader, be more enduring etc at times wherw the man is in a mental frenzy or other situations unless you wanna consider my words to pertain no exceptions coz you really wanna nail me down aye Lol
But again generally i maintain that men are the ones that lead by default.