Are you advocating for premarital sex?
Lets take a look of consequences;
"It’s been established that having multiple sex partners prior to marriage sometimes leads to less happy marriages and increases the odds of divorce." Source
"This study sought to determine whether having a higher number of non-marital sex partners lowered the likelihood that people would eventually get married. Our analyses demonstrate that having more numerous sex partners is indeed associated with lower odds of marriage, but only in the short term. Longitudinal data from 17 waves of the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth (1997) cohort indicate that multiple partners decreases the immediate likelihood of marriage." Source
"Multiple sex partners prior to marriage reduced marital quality for women, but not men. Along similar lines, sociologist Jay Teachman showed that premarital sex between future spouses didn’t make divorce more likely, but sex with other people did." Source
Now that we know premarital sex can lead to divoce. Lets see the trend of single mothers in America.
"In the United States, since the 1960s, there has been an increase in the number of children living with a single parent. The jump was caused by an increase in births to unmarried women and by the increasing prevalence of divorces among couples. In 2010, 40.7% of births in the US were to unmarried women." Source
"About one in five children is living with a single mom" Pew Research; Source
"Nearly half of Americans now say single women raising children on their own is bad for society". Pew Research; Source
Now that we know most women who have premarital sex end up being single moms and Americans think that it is bad for society, lets look at psychological and economic impacts of this practice
"Ongoing Conflict with an Ex. Divorce and separation are hard enough, but continuing conflict with a child's other parent can erode a single mom's mental health. Bullying, manipulation, withholding child support and violating divorce agreements are among the many behaviors divorced women tell us they face." Source; MentalHealthAmerica.org
"Single mothers generally remain impoverished longer than divorced mothers. Whereas divorced mothers who receive welfare do so for three to four years, the always-single mother is less likely to stop receiving welfare and takes longer to exit poverty."
"Single mothers experienced high unemployment rates and were more likely to exit the labor force than single fathers and women without children." Source; Fed Reserve Bank
You may find it cool to say that it is ok to have premarital sex, but research, economical, and psychological figures tells a different story.
Additionally, the children of such mothers have issues beyond your imagination. These mothers also turn to sex work, onlyfans, and what not.
Lets take a look of consequences;
"It’s been established that having multiple sex partners prior to marriage sometimes leads to less happy marriages and increases the odds of divorce." Source
"This study sought to determine whether having a higher number of non-marital sex partners lowered the likelihood that people would eventually get married. Our analyses demonstrate that having more numerous sex partners is indeed associated with lower odds of marriage, but only in the short term. Longitudinal data from 17 waves of the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth (1997) cohort indicate that multiple partners decreases the immediate likelihood of marriage." Source
"Multiple sex partners prior to marriage reduced marital quality for women, but not men. Along similar lines, sociologist Jay Teachman showed that premarital sex between future spouses didn’t make divorce more likely, but sex with other people did." Source
Now that we know premarital sex can lead to divoce. Lets see the trend of single mothers in America.
"In the United States, since the 1960s, there has been an increase in the number of children living with a single parent. The jump was caused by an increase in births to unmarried women and by the increasing prevalence of divorces among couples. In 2010, 40.7% of births in the US were to unmarried women." Source
"About one in five children is living with a single mom" Pew Research; Source
"Nearly half of Americans now say single women raising children on their own is bad for society". Pew Research; Source
Now that we know most women who have premarital sex end up being single moms and Americans think that it is bad for society, lets look at psychological and economic impacts of this practice
"Ongoing Conflict with an Ex. Divorce and separation are hard enough, but continuing conflict with a child's other parent can erode a single mom's mental health. Bullying, manipulation, withholding child support and violating divorce agreements are among the many behaviors divorced women tell us they face." Source; MentalHealthAmerica.org
"Single mothers generally remain impoverished longer than divorced mothers. Whereas divorced mothers who receive welfare do so for three to four years, the always-single mother is less likely to stop receiving welfare and takes longer to exit poverty."
"Single mothers experienced high unemployment rates and were more likely to exit the labor force than single fathers and women without children." Source; Fed Reserve Bank
You may find it cool to say that it is ok to have premarital sex, but research, economical, and psychological figures tells a different story.
Additionally, the children of such mothers have issues beyond your imagination. These mothers also turn to sex work, onlyfans, and what not.
I tried to google about the "divoce/multiple partners" thing, only found this utah article and that's it.
The rest of the results were websites talking about said article.
That's not REALLY a lot of ground...
The rest of the results were websites talking about said article.
That's not REALLY a lot of ground...
"After a variety of observable characteristics are controlled, nonvirgins still face a much higher risk of divorce than virgins." Joan R. Kahn and Kathryn A. London, “Premarital Sex and the Risk of Divorce,” Journal of Marriage and the Family, 53 (1991): 845-855. [1]
"For both genders, we find that virgins have dramatically more stable first marriages…" Edward O. Laumann et al., The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United States, (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1994), p. 503. [2]
“Those who marry as non-virgins are also more likely – all other things being equal – to be unfaithful over the remainder of their life compared with those spouses who do marry as virgins.” Laumann et al., 1994, p. 505. [2]
"I find that premarital sex or premarital cohabitation that is limited to a woman's husband is not associated with an elevated risk of marital disruption. However, women who have more than one intimate premarital relationship have an increased risk of marital dissolution. These results suggest that neither premarital sex nor premarital cohabitation by itself indicate either preexisting characteristics or subsequent relationship environments that weaken marriages." Jay Teachman, “Premarital Sex, Premarital Cohabitation, and the Risk of Subsequent Marital Dissolution Among Women,” Journal of Marriage and Family 65 (2003): 444-455, p. 454. [3]
"Results indicate that wanted sexual debut in later adolescence does not directly increase the risk of marital dissolution but is linked indirectly as a result of subsequent premarital sexual outcomes. Sexual debut that is not completely wanted or that occurs before age 16 is associated with increased risk of marital dissolution. " Anthony Paik, “Adolescent Sexuality and Risk of Marital Dissolution,” Journal of Marriage and Family 73 (2011): 472-485, p. 472 [4]
You dont need to worry about correlation not necessarily meaning causation, because the studies i cited were done with a controlled experiment, as also mentioned in the quotations.
There is also this idea that divorce caused by infidelity is ultimately caused by stigma about premarital sex. They said that if pre marital sex is normalized, there would be less divorce. The funny thing is, this is blatantly counterintuitive, as a religious person would normally not have premarital sex.
"women who marry as virgins are far more likely than other women to attend church at least once a week...women who have multiple sex partners are less likely to be regular churchgoers." [5]
Premarital sex has also been observed along with infidelity.
"For people in this survey who reported four or fewer lifetime sexual partners, the rate of infidelity in the current marriage dropped to 11%, while for those who had five or more sexual partners the number was nearly double (21%). The break between the 54% of people who had five or more lifetime sexual partners vs. the 46% who had four or fewer total partners illustrates the lessons from the study. This breakpoint is validated by the fact that when asked straight out, 68% of those with more sexual partners in their pasts agreed that, “I am always faithful to my sexual partner” (whether currently married or single), compared to 82% of those with fewer sexual partners who said the same." [6]
Now look at the after effect:
"Divorce rates were significantly higher for secret infidelity couples (80%, n 4) than for revealed infidelity (43%, n 6) and noninfidelity couples (23%, n 26) " American Psychological Association (APA). [7]
So there you go another bullshit from the so-called "progressivism" from a certain group. Stop normalizing pre marital sex