@Uncle Van perhaps you are right on one thing. My strategy is not good. It seems to constantly activate defense mechanism. And someone just made me realize that explaining stuff will actually never work, knowing is not enough to act. I don't know why I was so stubborn with this.. but maybe.. just maybe there is another way. I'll try it right now:
What do you think could be done for marginalized people like me to feel safer in this place?
What do you think could be done for marginalized people like me to feel safer in this place?





