uh ? No.. Sayin men are trash is not meant to end sexism,
You said it was though
in the context of global oppression against women, Implies that the act was justified in it's function to combat or end sexism
What did you mean by that comment, If not what was said.
And no, this is not sexism. Sexism is a systematic situation just like racism. Sayin men are trash as nothing to do with that.
So it's only racist or sexist if it's inherently done by the government?
so if im to call some black person racial slurs, it's not racist due to it not being systematically?
In your attempt to like disavow white racism or male sexism, You created a internal logic which wouldt account individual people who themselves are racist
and even then, You seem to be unsure of what your stance on misandry would be like before you seemed to frame it as a necessary evil for the freedom of women and now it's just not sexist whatsoever
We know how to end oppression dude.. i've told you many way to do it. But we can't really end oppression if people like you keep questionning the fight, you do understand right ?
You didt answer on what was the tangible goal to be had
people like me questioning the fight, Please im being very light compared to alot of the more people on the right
which would of called you stupid or some other insult
This is discourse, discussion or whatever you wanna call it. im not exactly stopping the fight or doing much of anything to advance it by asking about the details there of now would i be?
I think such details as what is the goal of this fight, is important anyway
You know, there is nothing wrong in seeying and understanding your bias
Trying to stay neutral ALWAYS benefit the right.
You are telling me that it's bad to stay neutral and that im to evaluate my potential biases
How can be one side left or right, Then also take the stance of trying to fix the biases that may blind your thought processes
I agree with the idea, Trying to elevate biases so you can make more critical judgments
And going back to the initial point
you said it was about men realizing they were the problem
and my response to that was that alot of guys who arent as far left as you wont wanna demonize themselves so your reponse here is a total non sequitur
What you must do is accept that you live in a environment where all those bias are perpetuated by society, media and educations, only by doing that will you understand that you are part of the problem.
Think that's basic sociology to a degree
The social environment dictating behavioral functions part at least
This kinda goes into the nature vs nurture idea of things but nonetheless agree the point in theory
maybe not in it's entirety due to the whole, you are at fault thing
It cant be a societal problem with numerous layers of environmental manipulation to encourage certain ways of thinking and have the conclusion be the most black & white, men are the problem answer
women can face issues due to economic pressures ie not having enough due to being born in a more wealthy household and that would exist entirely separate to men as a collective, that's just one hypothetical ofc cant say it represents everything but it's the general point not every issue had by a woman has to relate to men with the male gender always as the badguy
for one who speaks of checking out your own internal biases, You are very quick to see men as the badguy and not saying men cant do bad things or whatever merely pointing out how the quick men bad response kinda speaks to something afterall if the same type of argument was had by me and ive immediately said women bad, you would justifiably call me out
That why you are a "trash" (potentially problematic for women) until you are not. For example, I don't think I will be a problem for women anymore, but I sure was early in my days.
Another thing you need to understand is that women don't have to tell you that you are a "good guy". Being a good guy is normal, that's just the state you should be in if you weren't raised like me in a patriarcal society, it's just normal. So don't expect them to give you a cookie. But being a good guy right now means, being able to recognize all those bias and working on them.
This is where we fundamentally differ
I dont honestly care to work hard on being not a nuisance to women nor does the reverse really apply im not going to work hard on being a complete doosh to them
I just treat women like any other person say hello or whatever yknow
maybe sometimes interaction might differ with that of a dude due to the simple fact, im attracted to women and not manly men
I think we disagree on what being a good guy would be, To you it's being able to recognize biases and working on them
To me, I think it's just being polite and civil to others not being mean or rude
Sometimes you can have a bad day or whatever maybe your dog died or whatever but overall you should try to stay civil and nice no purpose or function in mindlessly pissing off every single person in the vicinity
I said racists but they would fit that bill too
I would have a broad definition including black supremists or any group which would prefer 1 racial group over another
Refusing to admit mistakes is a huge problem.
Didt say, I refuse to admit mistakes
I even said not saying and then said in a general sense why are you responding to me in a way that's implying the exact opposite of what was stated by me
are you confused about what was said in said statement?