To begin, It is suggested, and I'll try and find the study for this later, that your levels of Oxytocin that is responsible for love, is dampened by overly-stimulation. This means having a portfolio of sexual encounters can damage your ability to form intimate connections with people.
On a moral level, I think pornography and OnlyFans objectifies both men and women. Those involved in producing it and those who consume it. Porn is predatory.
Wow .. a lot of problems here
First. there is no definitive and scientific studies about the usage of Porn and its effect on love. So your sentence:
This means having a portfolio of sexual encounters can damage your ability to form intimate connections with people.
Is based on a myth.
Now, that's said, there is indeed a problem of objectivization in porn, but this is not because of the support (porn) its because of the standards of the industry and the poor treatment of women in this industry.
Porn exist in fact in many various ways, there is for example feminist porn where women won't be objectified or treated as prize.
The real problem is therefore here, not porn. Its education, and the patriarchy. Yes that again. Its everywhere, even in porn.
Now, Onlyfan is different as onlyfan is done BY the content creator. Therefore its THEIR choice not the one of the industry so comparing the porn industry and onlyfans is fallacious at best.
Why ? you are making a baseless statement out of nowhere here that doesnt relate to anything you talked about before.
Such as when in a loving pair of two people
Not necessarally, I had amazing sex with people with I had no feelings toward. And it was still amazing and respectfull.
I think you are confusing sex with love. Those are two very different things. People can have sex without ever being in love and people can love without never have sex.
This is dehumanising towards conservative women. It is also the whole "no-true Scotsman" narrative.
No. Dehumnazing women would means saying that "they are not true women". I'm not saying that. Those are true women. They are just not feminists ones. Simple. Not every women are feminist. In fact the majority of women on this earth are against feminist ideals.
Freely allowing access to your body is bad for human relationships.
"access" ? eww
On what basis ? No its not. When its consensual nothing is harmfull to the relationship. Furthermore when a women give you permission to you to touch her body, doesn't mean that you have a free ticket for the rest of your life. You don't own the body of the one you love because you are with them.
giving sex too soon creates hookup culture, which is damaging for the family unit and sexual health of all involved.
On what basis ? What is "hookup culture" ? Do you have studies to back your point of view or you are taking that out of nowhere ?
You're denouncing all that will disagree with you as morally wrong. This is the incorrect way to argue, especially for someone called Logiko
one day you will understand that their is something called the political compass and that generally, people who are on the same political compass have more or less the same point of view.
So yes, I can discard an argument simply by knowing the political compass of a personn. Why ? Because they are most likely going to use the same arguments as other i've debunked before. Wrong arguments.
No true scotsman and ideological puritanism.
Leftism is based on a particular set of value. Feminism is one of them. So if you are not feminist, you are not a leftist. Its not a fallacy, its just logic.
You can't just say I'm leftist and think we will agree with you. Leftism is not a religion or an identity its a set of political values, so your argument is a fallacy.
It is not patriarchy to accept that the sexes are different. EQUAL but different.
If you are talking about sexual attribute then yes, there are different sexual attribute, but men and women are just gender. Denying that is a symptom of patriarchy indeed.
This is simply playing victim politics. You're demonizing men. You're treating them like predators.
My boy. Men ARE predator. Not because we want to be, but because we are ALL raised in a society where men are raised like predators.
"Pedrator" is a large scale, it can mean being simply toxic and sexist to being a straight up raper.
Understanding patriarchy is understanding that we live in a society that forges us and that society forges mens to be oppressive toward women. WITHOUT EXCEPTIONS.
That's science mate. Learn about it.
I know many who have thought they were happy and then years later regretted their decisions
Not many
If people are happy, so be it, but to ignore there are clearly women and men slipping through the cracks is... ludicrous.
Yes, a minority
I go through lengths to not label
you can label me. For example you can say that I'm a woke, a hardcore feminist, a transally, a leftist, full of myself, overconfident. You have a lot of choice. I took what I saw:
You were transphobe
And
You are being sexist.
Even if you are in denial.
I therefore uses those labels, not to put you down, but to make you understand that those behaviors are not cool. Nothing is personnal for me here.
