Oh I get what she's saying, but what does that have to do with our conversation earlier?
Because you said to me that "fake wokeness" was when person were fighting about pronoun.
The purpose of the fight for a more inclusive langage is linked to the process that langage shape the way we think.
For example, if you include neutral pronouns in a grammar, then all of a sudden, you can include person with different type of gender identity in said langage. Which means that not only you will create a more inclusive langage, but this inclusivity will be felt in real society too.
Example : imagine a language were there is only male pronoun. Then you create a society were women are invisibilized through langage, which can lead to real invisibility in real world. But add "her" and you transform the way we think society.
This is why you can see people fight for a more inclusive language.