Then we're not accepting of people as transwomen or transmen, aka men and women who've decided to transfer/change their gender/sex.
Trans people do not "decide" to change or transfert their gender, it simply their identity.
Also, women leader doesn't negate the presence of patriarchy in pretty much all societies.
I think the more interesting thing to me about the whole movement is in its essence it is truly a hypocritical stance.
I think you completely missunderstand the issue in reality. That's not a problem of your perception, its you only being uneducated (like many people here) on the subject.
You'd rather not help the person accept the body they were born with and help them be comfortable in that body, empower them to be feminine or masculine in their lifestyles while embracing their body... instead you'd advocate for changing ones body constitution through procedures that could be extremely harmful.
It's not that simple. There is something called gender disphoria, and it does not disappear just through the force of your will.
Most procedure are not harmfull and the VAST majority of trans people are happy to transition.
Educate yourself on the subject.
Imo, ones true self should be how you're born.
No, one true self is your identity, its your life, your experience, your feeling, your memory. Etc.
Stop trying to put your ideals on people.
If you cannot embrace your true self, you're not accepting your identity.
Rather you're attempting to change your identity.
Trans HAVE an identity, they just want their body to align with said identity and society to accept as they are maening the opposite gender assignate and birth.
In other words, instead of trying to let them be who they are here, you are trying to format them into something they are not.
So Again,, educate yourself.
it really isnt though, thats why everyone except for you has man and woman defined by male and female respectively.
See, you just proved it. A lot of people in english lack the knowledge to make the distinction.
Again, follow science, not made up dictionnaries.