I'm just saying that the ones who do are misguided, as hatred can only ever breed more hatred.
No, they are not missguided, they are pressured by a system of domination that prevent's them from having anything other than resentment in their heart.
Hatred can indeed only breed hatred, but to start being lovefull, one needs the material condition of existence that will allow them to distances themselves for the system that is destroying them.
This is where Fisher Tiger and Otohime are imporatant. But not all black or oppressed people have the luck to live with a fisher Tiger that is allowing them to elevate their material condition of existence.
If I was in my situation without the social and cultural capital that I have now
(and that I aquired because I was born in the middle class) that is allowing me to elevate my thinking and my condition, I would be in the streets hating on rich and valid people right now, not talking to you.
You can't ask oppressed people to be nice when they are being bullied into dehumanization.