There is a myth that we are inherently chaotic/bad by nature. It's not true, we are a social specie, meaning we can create our own limitations socially and internally.
But since people believe they are chaotic, they perform this chaos on the internet. It's just a performance tho. None of the people here are chaotic in real life, I'm pretty sure all of you are good and nice people (aside of a few exceptionally reactionnary apples perhaps).
Which makes the states of places on internet like this... fake. Chaos is not in our nature. Conflict happen, but when we are true to ourselves there are no reasons to search for it.
People didn't wait for laws to appear to be good people.