Aslamualikumm
I SECOND and idk how emphatically i should assert this but i second what
@Chrono advised..
If you don't want an empty and unreceptive heart, dulled sense, and head that aches and eyes that don't shed tears in a month where hearts soften from remembrance and struggle
Stop watching it and fear Allah man.
Whenever you're tempted to fight against the urge think to yourself what it has turned you into a mindless bot that responds to urges and is just sensitive and agitated throughout the day slowly mentally devolving affecting those around him.
This is part of fasting and jihad, to struggle against yourself and i swear by Allah's 99 known names and the unknown ones that your biggest ally and the one who understands you more thna you understand yourself is Allah.. And ask him for ability.
Prophet SAW in an Authentic hadith i found is Riyad-As Saliheen : that Shyness is part of faith /iman
Be shy towards women and their charms
Enable your self to think of women as women and not what the kuffar have turned them into.. Pron has blurred the line between pleasure and what affection and love really is..
Last but not least don't give up bro, we humans stumble.. The best of us do stumble.. Even the prophets were humans and they were tested with unimaginable faith and wealth.
And remember
{ ۞ قُلۡ یَـٰعِبَادِیَ ٱلَّذِینَ أَسۡرَفُوا۟ عَلَىٰۤ أَنفُسِهِمۡ لَا تَقۡنَطُوا۟ مِن رَّحۡمَةِ ٱللَّهِۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ یَغۡفِرُ ٱلذُّنُوبَ جَمِیعًاۚ إِنَّهُۥ هُوَ ٱلۡغَفُورُ ٱلرَّحِیمُ }
[Surah Az-Zumar: 53]
Say, O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allāh. Indeed, Allāh forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.
Last but not least.. be among those who ponder upon the book of god.. Not those who only read it to make the words count.
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{ وَیَوۡمَ یُنفَخُ فِی ٱلصُّورِ فَفَزِعَ مَن فِی ٱلسَّمَـٰوَ ٰتِ وَمَن فِی ٱلۡأَرۡضِ إِلَّا مَن شَاۤءَ ٱللَّهُۚ وَكُلٌّ أَتَوۡهُ دَ ٰخِرِینَ }
[Surah An-Naml: 87
Sahih International
And [warn of] the Day the Horn will be blown, and whoever is in the heavens and whoever is on the earth will be terrified except whom Allāh wills.
And all will come to Him humbled.