uhh .. spoiler... you are.
But it's okay, you can change.
society has has very specific ideas of gender roles meant to felicitate an existing support structure for women
it's women that are seen as opressed,weak and overly emotional why so their deemed not fit to hold working positions so the strong manly man can help the defenseless innocent virgin from society harming her
He has to be stoic so the women can have a shoulder to cry on without burdening her with his own troubles not that he has any, he's previliged and super weathy and pragmatic
This overly simplified gender role system enforced by both femminists and tradcons has no benefit on men and with the suicide rates being so high among males, it's evident that this idea of gender roles should be destroyed for something more fair where men nd women are able to work more as equals rather then oppressor and opressed and assumed innocent and assumed guilty
no no no no no and no
While you are close to understanding the problem, you are pointing to the wrong target. Women here don't have an easier job, theirs is WORST.
Yes, women are oppressed and that's a fact.
But they are not "seen as weak and overly emotional", they are PRESSURED by society to be that way. While on the other hand men are PRESSURED by society to be the opposite. But you forgot that on top of that.. women have what we call the mental charge.
So yes there is a problem, but the solution is not less value on women, is more value for both of men AND women. And for that, you need to understand that their is a system that is oppressing women while pressuring men. That system is called Patriarchy. That's what you need to aim at. That's what you need to destroy. In life, in media, in everything.
Only then will you face a society where both women and men live equally.
But this doesn't come without work. And work begins with yourself.
Understand your sexist bias, unpressure the burden you might put on women around you (maybe without even being aware of it), try to lift their burden.. and like me.. fight sexist men and mysoginist women, try to aim for better media, more inclusive.. more representative.. and maybe .. maybe.. you will be able to live in a society where you are not burden by the weight of having to look strong.