I understand gender dysphoria and what it means and I get transitioning helps people relieve it. But what is wrong with recognizing there is a difference between trans women and women? Trans women will never have the same lived experience as biological women. I will never have the same experience in life as anyone assigned male at birth and I'm pretty maleish in my behaviors. The running joke when I was kid, was I should've been born a boy. Even had an identity crisis in my teen years, where I thought I was Mike Tyson and stayed in trouble for fights. Even charged and convicted of starting a school fight, which was bs because it didn't even happen on school grounds. Even still, I will relate to other people assigned female at birth experiences.

I mean really explain where I have it wrong and if I'm missing something. Because I don't understand it.
Nobody denies that there is a difference between trans women and cis women.

The trans argument is that they want trans people to be accepted under the umbrella of the gender they identify as.
 
The definition of a trans woman is a biological man who identifies as a woman. This definition was very inconvenient when it came to things like sports so they try to change the definition, now we got like 3 different versions with 10 different science based studies....
That definition is fine. What isnt fine is the circular retarded definition some radical nutjobs are trying to push for man/woman where it effectively doesnt mean anything since its just about peoples self perception or what they claim to be.
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shouldn't a flat chested woman count as man if they claim lol
The appearance doesnt matter, they can claim it nonetheless
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Nobody denies that there is a difference between trans women and cis women.

The trans argument is that they want trans people to be accepted under the umbrella of the gender they identify as.
As long as woman is defined as adult human female, they are wrong though.

But this wont take long until their definition is the only one. I will stick to the term female when that happens
 

Zemmi

GodMommie
Haha there’s trans women on the internet claiming they get periods because they’re taking hormones.

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Yeah, I'm not a fan of things like this that feel like we are a mockery. Or those like Dylan Mulvaney, who it feels like mock women. She has taken every stereotype men have of us and made it her personality.
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Nobody denies that there is a difference between trans women and cis women.

The trans argument is that they want trans people to be accepted under the umbrella of the gender they identify as.
Why did you have to use cis? I'm starting to feel like that is an insult. I don't need a qualifier.
 
Fat Acceptance claimes obesity is healthy
The problem is that you equate "fat" with obesity. When fat ecceptance actually takes into account:
- Obesity
- People with curve

Also let be remindeed that obesity is a disease. Its not something that you overcome just because you want to. So for those two reasons, fat acceptance is primordial to help the person feel good with themself and then if necessary let her be able to seek for help without feeling rejected. This person seeking help being THEIR choices, not yours.


Feminists claim women are equal to men in phyiscal strength and bring up their own sciences and facts to prove it, only to get rejected.
I see very few feminist explaining tht, are you sure you are not strawmanning here ?


The definition of a trans woman is a biological man who identifies as a woman.
Wrong.

The definition of a transwomen is a person IDENTIFIED AT BIRTH as a man (in other words by doctors) because of potential MALE sexual characteristics (like the genitelia or chromosome) but who identify as the opposite gender.

F**K... if even the staff promotes wrong and potentially transphobic definitions now.. no wonder that your forum is filled with far rights lunatics.

But what is wrong with recognizing there is a difference between trans women and women?
Why would you need to not the difference ? Trans women usually go through a process transition during which they lose most of the physical attribute that are male characteristics. Sometimes, the transition is so clear that there is almost no difference.

Searching to highlight the differences between transwomen and cis women is categorizing forever trans to their status of trans and not to what they are actually identifying to.

Aside from sport where in the highest competitions there might be some differences of performances (and even there its debatable). There is absolutely no reasons to be transphobic and try to separate cis women from transwomen.

So let's not do it and lets respect those WOMEN.

:sweat:

Also note that we question - as usual - a lot transwomen, but noone is questionning the legitimacy of trans men in society or in sport where they are actually performing just as well as their pears. Again, its against all women that people are angry. That's another reason why we must be a little bit more protective of transwomen: They get the double jeopardy:

- They are discriminated because they are trans
- When they transition they are also discriminated because they are women
And I'm not even mentionning the danger they face with transphobes. (rapes / abuses / mur etc.)


As long as woman is defined as adult human female, they are wrong though.
A women being only identified as an adult female in outdated definition that don't take gender definitions into account.

Or those like Dylan Mulvaney, who it feels like mock cis women. She has taken every stereotype men have of us and made it her personality.
Or maybe its just her personnality. Noone is perfect... no need to search of malicious intent.

Why did you have to use cis? I'm starting to feel like that is an insult. I don't need a qualifier.
"Cis" just means that you identify to the same gender you were assignated at birth. Its not an insult at all, its just a way not to exclude Trans when talking about all women when we talk about non trans person. What I usually forget to do. I should be more careful in the future.
 
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Some times I really have to go back here asking the most obvious question because I refuse to believe this is real.

So the left is against any freedom speech that goes against their agenda but they are in favor of a group that explicitly openly says they want to kill them all?
 
So the left is against any freedom speech that goes against their agenda but they are in favor of a group that explicitly openly says they want to kill them all?
1. The left is not against freedom of speech, its against absolute freedom of speech, the kind of radical thinking that you can say everything even the most hurtfull things to people (things that can kill in the worst cases) and not be punished for it.

2. Because someone thinks that we are woke or against nature or even wants our death because of their beliefs doesn't means that we should let those people suffer under systemic oppression or in the worst cases in some countries die in atrocious conditions and accept war crimes and genocide against them.

I would fight the same for you if you were in the same condition mate. No matter if you are a bigot or a nazi. Every human have foundamental rights.
 

Zemmi

GodMommie
1. The left is not against freedom of speech, its against absolute freedom of speech, the kind of radical thinking that you can say everything even the most hurtfull things to people (things that can kill in the worst cases) and not be punished for it.

2. Because someone thinks that we are woke or against nature or even wants our death because of their beliefs doesn't means that we should let those people suffer under systemic oppression or in the worst cases in some countries die in atrocious conditions and accept war crimes and genocide against them.

I would fight the same for you if you were in the same condition mate. No matter if you are a bigot or a nazi. Every human have foundamental rights.
So should people be punished for things that are hurtful to me, like me being called a cis woman instead of just woman? Or are my feelings discounted in means to make someone else happy?

Almost kidding because everyone knows my generation understands words are just words and were raised with the now-dead saying. Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me. Now we have the tide pod generation. But we were also raised on the saying, if your friend jumps off a bridge would you? So we tended not to do idiotic things because people told us to, or were doing.

It's still an honest question. Should people be punished for things I find offensive?

Who is the judge of who has a right to be offended by language deemed hurtful?

How do we measure this?

I like absolute free speech. I would prefer people to tell me what they think and not have to wonder what awful things they are saying behind closed doors.
 
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1. The left is not against freedom of speech, its against absolute freedom of speech, the kind of radical thinking that you can say everything even the most hurtfull things to people (things that can kill in the worst cases) and not be punished for it.

2. Because someone thinks that we are woke or against nature or even wants our death because of their beliefs doesn't means that we should let those people suffer under systemic oppression or in the worst cases in some countries die in atrocious conditions and accept war crimes and genocide against them.

I would fight the same for you if you were in the same condition mate. No matter if you are a bigot or a nazi. Every human have foundamental rights.
  1. There is no half freedom. You ate either free or not.
  2. The Systemic oppression is you aiding them and giving them money only for them to use to kill others.
  3. You are fighting against me and all people of the world that are not Muslims. Actually not even Muslims but their people because I'm pretty sure if they ever rip Israrl out of the map (not happening) they would go for countries like Egypt for example. Russia, China, Hamas and others are no different from Hitler and Nazis. They want global domination and ethnic supremacy and cleansing
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It's still an honest question. Should people be punished for things I find offensive?

Who is the judge of who has a right to be offended by language deemed hurtful?

How do we measure this?

I like absolute free speech. I would prefer people to tell me what they think and not have to wonder what awful things they are saying behind closed doors.
Only if you came out as a woke.

The wokes are the judges.

How much cry a woke is doing will be the measure.

Hamas and other Muslims that spread hate speech have absolute free speech pass from the wokes.
 

Zemmi

GodMommie
  1. There is no half freedom. You ate either free or not.
  2. The Systemic oppression is you aiding them and giving them money only for them to use to kill others.
  3. You are fighting against me and all people of the world that are not Muslims. Actually not even Muslims but their people because I'm pretty sure if they ever rip Israrl out of the map (not happening) they would go for countries like Egypt for example. Russia, China, Hamas and others are no different from Hitler and Nazis. They want global domination and ethnic supremacy and cleansing
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Only if you came out as a woke.

The wokes are the judges.

How much cry a woke is doing will be the measure.

Hamas and other Muslims that spread hate speech have absolute free speech pass from the wokes.
I'm just trying to find out who the master is over my thoughts and words. So, I can fit into whatever type of slavery this is. :choppawhat:
 
Trans women usually go through a process transition during which they lose most of the physical attribute that are male characteristics. Sometimes, the transition is so clear that there is almost no difference.
Emphasis on usually.

But you would argue a man without any changes to their appearance would be a woman if they claim to be transgender.

And seriously, with 90% of trans women it is easily recognizable that they are trans
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might be some differences of performances (and even there its debatable).
Lmfao, this is incredibly anti-reality
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but noone is questionning the legitimacy of trans men
Ofc people are wtf.
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There is absolutely no reasons to be transphobic and try to separate cis women from transwomen.
Straight men will disagree
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women being only identified as an adult female in outdated definition that don't take gender definitions into account.
Yeah hit me up when the retarded gender definition is the only one , until then transwomen are men. Get over it.
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Some times I really have to go back here asking the most obvious question because I refuse to believe this is real.

So the left is against any freedom speech that goes against their agenda but they are in favor of a group that explicitly openly says they want to kill them all?
Wut???
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should people be punished for things that are hurtful to me, like me being called a cis woman instead of just woman? Or are my feelings discounted in means to make someone else happy?
Your feelings dont matter you damned transphobe
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Almost kidding because everyone knows my generation understands words are just words and were raised with the now-dead saying. Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.
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I like absolute free speech
Thats not possible. Incitement to violence or libel for example
 
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Monké Don't Do Taxes
Nobody denies that there is a difference between trans women and cis women.

The trans argument is that they want trans people to be accepted under the umbrella of the gender they identify as.
And the issue is that trans women for example claim they are factually the same as biological women, and demand the same privileges, protections and medications(like birth control or period cramp pills).

Sports is the easy low hanging fruit that shatters the whole notion. Men and women are separated in sports because of striking biological differences. Because someone identifies as trans, all of the fairness gets thrown out the window for the convenience of as little as one, and to the detriment of the rest. Someone like Dylan Mulvaney can become the 2023 Women of the Year simply for being trans for less than a year, and doing jack all during that time.
 
like me being called a cis woman instead of just woman?
Its not hurtfull to you. No one is oppressing you by calling you cis and you are not discriminated because of that. Cis just means "identifying to the same gender identified at birth, this is not an insult. I, for example, am a cis man.

On the other hand, people are discriminated for being trans or even cis women. So lets not make an fallacious equivalence here.


Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me
You maybe, other people are not as strong as yours. You might wanna learn - for example - about the power of words in the context of the golem effect. But even closer, words have effect, not only on the way you think but also on other people. People kill themself because of words.

Let's not forget about that.

Should people be punished for things I find offensive?
It depends, do the things you find offensive are legitimately things that can hurt actual oppressed people in society ? If that's the case, then yes.


I like absolute free speech.
So when an entire class tells a child to kill themself and the child does it or try to do it, then there should be no punishment or prevention done to forbide other children from saying those stuff ?

Or maybe your point of view doesn't apply to children and you might wanna be reminded that adult can face the same kind of behavior ?

What happens when someone with gender disphoria and suicidal tendancy gets told multiple time and time again that they are not normal ?? Should the person not face consequences for their words ?

But lets take a more random example : What happens when on television famous far right personnality explains that we should kill people because of their identity and it happens that... a lunatic kills multiple people in a gay bar the day after... Should this person not face any consequence for their words ?

You ask me to tell you how you mesure what is offensive or not. But I ask you the following instead:

How do you measure that something is acceptable ?


There is no half freedom. You ate either free or not.
Yes there is, its called freedom of speech and its different from absolute freedom of speech.


The Systemic oppression is you aiding them and giving them money only for them to use to kill others.
#YouDontUnderstandWhatYouAreTalkingABout.


They want global domination and ethnic supremacy and cleansing
You are talking about white supremacist here ?


Muslims that spread hate speech have absolute free speech pass from the wokes.
Nop. THey are denounced just as much. But since those denounciation would go against your agenda, you don't talk about it and you spread disinformation. Typical far right intellectual lazyness.


And seriously, with 90% of trans women it is easily recognizable that they are trans
And ?


this is incredibly anti-reality
No, this is following the studies mate. THere are difference of performance but only when you look at the most competitive datas.


Ofc people are wtf.
I'm talking about this forum. Yes, in the word transmen are also oppressed, that's a reality. But people here are choosing to focus on transwomen for some (not obvious at all) reason.


Straight men will disagree
We are not talking about sexual preference here but the differenciation of transwomen from cis women as individuals in society.


the retarded gender definition
And you still don't understand why you are not on my side of the political fence ? Dude.. take a hint.


the issue is that trans women for example claim they are factually them same as biological women
Nop. No trans women say that, you are either lying or moral panicking or both.


and demand the same privileges, protections and medications(like birth control or period cramp pills)
That they should get yes.


Men and women are separated in sports because of striking biological differences
No, mainly because of patriarchy. The difference is only observable in the data of the more competitive scenes.


Dylan Mulvaney can become the 2023 Women of the Year
Good for her.


simply for being trans
That's only your point of view. I think it has more to do with the representation she provided.


The left has free pass for hate speech and incitement of violence.
The left doesn't promote hate speech. But yes, they do incite violence when its needed and just.
 

Zemmi

GodMommie
@Logiko that's a lot to address.

1.) Is it not oppression when I'm being told my feeling are invalid and my opinion means nothing? Or that, I'm supposed to let someone tell me what a big part of my identity is. The word cis has been weaponized by the left to insult people. Not just women either. How many times I hear "You're opinion don't count because you a cis man." Like that invalidates people.

2.) Not only am I strong but the majority of my generation. That is the problem. We aren't raising strong kids anymore and I'm not sure how we found ourselves on this path. I know my kids laugh at people who attempt to bully them, because they ain't got nothing on their momma lol. I threaten to get out of the car and dance in front of their friends. My oldest used to get mad at his online friends when they said things regarding his momma. I tried the son I don't care you don't need to care. That wasn't effective so, when ever he said something. My response was "Your momma."

Final thought: Stop telling people they need other validation to be. If you need validation from others you need to do some soul searching to understand yourself.

3.) Yes it steals people's voices away. They are afraid to say how certain things make them feel.

4.) I will have to back up my words on what I said with this one. Bullying isn't ok. Because also it's not ok to scream fire in a crowded theater. I do think you generally got the idea of what I was saying though.

On the second part. I have to agree I'm sort of nuance on this. If a cult leader tells their cult to drink the poisoned cool-aid (by the way it wasn't really cool-aid) and they drink it. That's kinda dumb on them.

Then there is the Charles Manson case where he got his groupies to go murder people. Though I guess, I would put this under a mastermind. Kinda like hiring a hit man.

I believe a majority things are acceptable, even if I define the person as a piece shit for what they say or do.

Conclusion I hold my thoughts on people being able to say what they want to say, but there are very few things that deserve punishment.
 
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Herrera95

Yes there is, its called freedom of speech and its different from absolute freedom of speech.
You woke love to invent shit that doesn't exist. Like the 6383938
You are talking about white supremacist here ?
No. Russian supremacy. Chinese supremacy. Those are the ones who wants supremacy.

Nop. THey are denounced just as much. But since those denounciation would go against your agenda, you don't talk about it and you spread disinformation. Typical far right intellectual lazyness.
Seems it doesn't fit your agenda too because you don't denounce them but you are the first to talk shit fake news about Israel.
 

Uncle Van

Monké Don't Do Taxes
@Logiko that's a lot to address.

1.) Is it not oppression when I'm being told my feeling are invalid and my opinion means nothing? Or that, I'm supposed to let someone tell me what a big part of my identity is. The word cis has been weaponized by the left to insult people. Not just women either. How many times I hear "You're opinion don't count because you a cis man." Like that invalidates people.

2.) Not only am I strong but the majority of my generation. That is the problem. We aren't raising strong kids anymore and I'm not sure how we found ourselves on this path. I know my kids laugh at people who attempt to bully them, because they ain't got nothing on their momma lol. I threaten to get out of the car and dance in front of their friends. My oldest used to get mad at his online friends when they said things regarding his momma. I tried the son I don't care you don't need to care. That wasn't effective so, when ever he said something. My response was "Your momma."

Final thought: Stop telling people they need other validation to be. If you need validation from others you need to do some soul searching to understand yourself.

3.) Yes it steals people's voices away. They are afraid to say how certain things make them feel.

4.) I will have to back up my words on what I said with this one. Bullying isn't ok. Because also it's not ok to scream fire in a crowded theater. I do think you generally got the idea of what I was saying though.

On the second part. I have to agree I'm sort of nuance on this. If a cult leader tells their cult to drink the poisoned cool-aid (by the way it wasn't really cool-aid) and they drink it. That's kinda dumb on them.

Then there is the Charles Manson case where he got his groupies to go murder people. Though I guess, I would put this under a mastermind. Kinda like hiring a hit man.

I believe a majority things are acceptable, even if I define the person as a piece shit for what they say or do.

Conclusion I hold my thoughts on people being able to say what they want to say, but there are very few things that deserve punishment.
It got this way because so much of the movement appeals to narcissism and removes accountability. If you are unhappy, instead of telling you that you have the power to improve yourself and the sky is the limit, you are told that you are perfect the way you are and that it's society that needs to change to accommodate you. Combine that with the internet where you can easily build your own echo chamber.
 
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It got this way because so much of the movement appeals to narcissism and removes accountability. If you are unhappy, instead of telling you that you have the power to improve yourself and the sky is the limit, you are told that you are perfect the way you are and that it's society that needs to change to accommodate you. Combine that with the internet where you can easily build your own echo chamber.
The problem is how much those psychos gained space in society. How much attention and people believing in that bullshit.
 
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