Controversial Is it bad to be a virgin into your late 20s?
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@Monkey D Theories
There's nothing to be ashamed of,bro.
I'm also 23 and have never been in a relationship.
The reason for this is,in simple words,that my Asperger's syndrome caused a delay in my cognitive development .
During my childhood and adolescence,i was a weird little boy who could not live his own life at the levels that a normal child and teenager can. So of course it would be inappropriate for me to have my first love experiences during that time.
After i graduated from high school,i was able to develop the life skills that i didn't have before. Now i look forward to the stage of life where people take technical courses,and study at college and university,as these are good social environments to start a romantic life.
No one should pay attention to the American pressure placed on them to begin their romantic lives during their teenage years . Not only is this pressure a cancer,but starting to date during your teens isn't as good as people say. If they get too carried away,they can have many problems,such as messy breakups,loss of focus on studies,and unwanted teenage pregnancies.
By dedicating your growth phase to developing your identity and goals,you can have greater success and satisfaction in your first experiences with something later on.
Just as our appearances are all different,our personalities are all different,the way our lives unfold is also different. We should take our time for everything,and know how to use our time intelligently and wisely.
But you need to know how to take the right actions.
You can't waste your time being an internet addict. You should focus on always looking your best and having your life in order,both of which can make you an attractive person,and engage in real-life activities that allow you to meet good same-sex friends and potential romantic partners. Examples are going to bars,pubs and nightclubs.
These are the lessons i have learned recently and will apply in my life. I am sharing it with you with pleasure.
We are both in the prime of youth. We can achieve what we want by using our time correctly.
@Fuckthis3 @Mathias @Yoho @Roo
There's nothing to be ashamed of,bro.
I'm also 23 and have never been in a relationship.
The reason for this is,in simple words,that my Asperger's syndrome caused a delay in my cognitive development .
During my childhood and adolescence,i was a weird little boy who could not live his own life at the levels that a normal child and teenager can. So of course it would be inappropriate for me to have my first love experiences during that time.
After i graduated from high school,i was able to develop the life skills that i didn't have before. Now i look forward to the stage of life where people take technical courses,and study at college and university,as these are good social environments to start a romantic life.
No one should pay attention to the American pressure placed on them to begin their romantic lives during their teenage years . Not only is this pressure a cancer,but starting to date during your teens isn't as good as people say. If they get too carried away,they can have many problems,such as messy breakups,loss of focus on studies,and unwanted teenage pregnancies.
By dedicating your growth phase to developing your identity and goals,you can have greater success and satisfaction in your first experiences with something later on.
Just as our appearances are all different,our personalities are all different,the way our lives unfold is also different. We should take our time for everything,and know how to use our time intelligently and wisely.
But you need to know how to take the right actions.
You can't waste your time being an internet addict. You should focus on always looking your best and having your life in order,both of which can make you an attractive person,and engage in real-life activities that allow you to meet good same-sex friends and potential romantic partners. Examples are going to bars,pubs and nightclubs.
These are the lessons i have learned recently and will apply in my life. I am sharing it with you with pleasure.
We are both in the prime of youth. We can achieve what we want by using our time correctly.
@Fuckthis3 @Mathias @Yoho @Roo
Are you the guy who randomly tags people ?
Beyond the "focus on life purposes" catchphrase. Which is alright but dodges the questions.
I believe that if you tell people you're a virgin, they'll immediately wonder what is wrong with you. It's a sociological reflex. And the chances of not "having" anything are slim. Especially if you don't have physically very repulsive traits. Being good looking and virgin is a giveaway of something deeper. People saying "I'm better alone" have no idea what it's like to be loved or have strong friendships.
Beyond the "focus on life purposes" catchphrase. Which is alright but dodges the questions.
I believe that if you tell people you're a virgin, they'll immediately wonder what is wrong with you. It's a sociological reflex. And the chances of not "having" anything are slim. Especially if you don't have physically very repulsive traits. Being good looking and virgin is a giveaway of something deeper. People saying "I'm better alone" have no idea what it's like to be loved or have strong friendships.
🗨️ 😄 I don't randomly tag users. The users I tag are those I see are engaged in the topic.
😊 😊 😊 I'm being kind to the op and to you. I'm speaking heart to heart with you in a way that we can relate to,encouraging you not to let yourself be hurt by bad social pressures,and sharing with you advice I've received in my life to help you achieve fulfillment. I stumbled upon posts where you talk about your struggles with love,so I thought what I have to say might be helpful to you.
Social pressures are not a good thing. They cause people to have self-defeating thoughts and habits that prevent them from achieving happiness. It's important to have people who help you win the battle against this.
I've never had any problems with physical appearance. People around me always commented on what a cute boy I am,including several girls from the schools i attended. Over time,I realized this is true,and started working on my self-esteem and focusing on always looking my best. Do you have any problems with your physical appearance ?
I know what it's like to have socialization problems. Due to the delay in cognitive development and emotional problems caused by my Asperger's mentioned above,I pushed away many students who tried to befriend me at school,including the girls who thought I was cute. For a while,I thought I had no interest in social life. But I finally woke up to life,and realized all the good things about childhood,adolescence and school life that i was missing out on. I finished high school without making friends or enjoying that phase of life properly. This made me sad for a while,but now I'm optimistic,knowing that I have plenty of time and opportunities to make up for it ahead of me.
😊 😊 😊 I'm being kind to the op and to you. I'm speaking heart to heart with you in a way that we can relate to,encouraging you not to let yourself be hurt by bad social pressures,and sharing with you advice I've received in my life to help you achieve fulfillment. I stumbled upon posts where you talk about your struggles with love,so I thought what I have to say might be helpful to you.
Social pressures are not a good thing. They cause people to have self-defeating thoughts and habits that prevent them from achieving happiness. It's important to have people who help you win the battle against this.
I've never had any problems with physical appearance. People around me always commented on what a cute boy I am,including several girls from the schools i attended. Over time,I realized this is true,and started working on my self-esteem and focusing on always looking my best. Do you have any problems with your physical appearance ?
I know what it's like to have socialization problems. Due to the delay in cognitive development and emotional problems caused by my Asperger's mentioned above,I pushed away many students who tried to befriend me at school,including the girls who thought I was cute. For a while,I thought I had no interest in social life. But I finally woke up to life,and realized all the good things about childhood,adolescence and school life that i was missing out on. I finished high school without making friends or enjoying that phase of life properly. This made me sad for a while,but now I'm optimistic,knowing that I have plenty of time and opportunities to make up for it ahead of me.
Which posts ? I don't recall posting anything deep enough
Do I have "bad" physical traits ? Well what comes to mind would be that people that I just meet often tell me that I "look older". But I never cared about that tbh. Should I get botox and some lifting @K!NG HARA$H!MA ? Or should I simply shave my big ass beard
