Are you happy?

Renovation update.

After 8 days my apartment is finally ready.
Its still a mess and we have to clean everything tomorrow but i am really happy with the result.
Thats one step towards happiness!

It looks like I've finally done some things I've wanted to do for literal years.

Words can't describe how happy and optimistic that makes me.

Of course, I still feel far from adequate and actually doing anything good, but I feel more hopeful and positive than ever before
:cheers:
 
generally speaking, I been miserable

-Conflict with my family
- Lack of friends and a gf irl
-struggling to find a job or make some income
-annoyance with people online
-failure to maintain my fish tanks
-general lack of skill at anything including games,art and so on
-cancelation of my favorite frozen pizza
-failure to move out
-cancelation of media series, I like
-my existence, everyday nearly feel like just sleeping and never waking up


I know some of the things are minor but it all adds up for me
 
generally speaking, I been miserable

-Conflict with my family
- Lack of friends and a gf irl
-struggling to find a job or make some income
-annoyance with people online
-failure to maintain my fish tanks
-general lack of skill at anything including games,art and so on
-cancelation of my favorite frozen pizza
-failure to move out
-cancelation of media series, I like
-my existence, everyday nearly feel like just sleeping and never waking up


I know some of the things are minor but it all adds up for me
Did you go to college?
 
You can’t get out of your current situation without trying something different. If you still don’t think it’s worth going to college then you should do your best to find a job. It’ll do wonders for your self esteem.
it's not me thinking that it has zero worth
it's me not having 20 grand to drop on tuition


Even if i had 20 thousand dollars, It wouldt be best spent on going to college



Been working on a job but it's not exactly easy in a small town
 
It's good; could be better
Good Parts:
  • Got a new Car
  • New Apartment close to work with a new kitchen and realy cheap rent
  • Stupid Asshole Boss was fired :funky:
  • Social life is stabil
  • Job is calming down, less stress
What could be better:
  • Need to lose some weight (10 kg)
  • I want a stable serious realationship (no friendship plus)
  • Too many Night Shifts (sleeping cycle is right now ass)
 
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I was bummed when I recently noticed that all my stamina from high school and university years went away.

Ô my heart and lungs, please start working again. I need you for a few more decades !
 
Life is amazing for me:

- Getting married soon.
- Getting a promotion soon.
- Losing roughly 2.5kg a month from exercise.
- Doctor has started taking me off anti-depressants because I no longer require them to function.
- The future-wife and I are discussing children.
- I have lots saved in the bank.
- I have made great progress with language learning.
- My health has improved of late.

Up and up.
 
Life is amazing for me:

- Getting married soon.
- Getting a promotion soon.
- Losing roughly 2.5kg a month from exercise.
- Doctor has started taking me off anti-depressants because I no longer require them to function.
- The future-wife and I are discussing children.
- I have lots saved in the bank.
- I have made great progress with language learning.
- My health has improved of late.

Up and up.
Congrats on your engagement! I was stressed planning my wedding even though I tried to keep it simple. Marriage is worth it when you are with the right person! I wish you and your wife a happy marriage! Also I wish good health for your future family too!
 

TheKnightOfTheSea

𝕷𝖔𝖗𝖉 𝖔𝖋 𝕸𝖔𝖔𝖓'𝖘 𝕾𝖕𝖆𝖜𝖓
generally speaking, I been miserable

-Conflict with my family
- Lack of friends and a gf irl
-struggling to find a job or make some income
-annoyance with people online
-failure to maintain my fish tanks
-general lack of skill at anything including games,art and so on
-cancelation of my favorite frozen pizza
-failure to move out
-cancelation of media series, I like
-my existence, everyday nearly feel like just sleeping and never waking up


I know some of the things are minor but it all adds up for me
life does suck at times at man.

try to find something/someplace where you can meet some new people.
 

TheKnightOfTheSea

𝕷𝖔𝖗𝖉 𝖔𝖋 𝕸𝖔𝖔𝖓'𝖘 𝕾𝖕𝖆𝖜𝖓
I was

now i'm not

the fact that I was for a short period makes it even worse

would have rather just been unhappy the entire time
 

Uncle Van

Taxes Are a Sickness
Life is amazing for me:

- Getting married soon.
- Getting a promotion soon.
- Losing roughly 2.5kg a month from exercise.
- Doctor has started taking me off anti-depressants because I no longer require them to function.
- The future-wife and I are discussing children.
- I have lots saved in the bank.
- I have made great progress with language learning.
- My health has improved of late.

Up and up.
Seeing how apparently fucked your life was in the past, this genuinely made me smile and I usually brush shit off. Congrats.

I was

now i'm not

the fact that I was for a short period makes it even worse

would have rather just been unhappy the entire time
Being happy and unhappy at times is completely normal. People who seem happy 100% of the time comes off as unintentionally deranged.
 
Seeing how apparently fucked your life was in the past, this genuinely made me smile and I usually brush shit off. Congrats.
Life has been a long and bumpy road riddled with potholes and constant dead-ends. However, I feel that facing my problems has allowed me to grow stronger and more resilient.

Thank you for the kind words, and I am glad it made you smile. I hope your life is going well -- and I extend that to each and every person who reads this message.
 
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