I would describe you as being condescending rather than emphatic but it's just how I see it.
It would be true if I saw myself as superior and more intelligent, but that's not how I see myself.
Empathy with endogroups is something accessible to anyone as long as you have the capitals. It happens that some people here lack the tools to be. So, by showing a difference between my behavior and some other's here, I'm making an observation, not a judgment.
I've been trying my hardest to give everyone here the tools to do just that. No one here can say that I never tried multiple ways to explains, deconstruct, demonstrate, listen, shared informations for people to understand.
If you think that me observing that there has been no effect and people are still reactionnary here is condescending, fine. But that would be bloody ignorant of what I tried to do here.