Gender*, gay and lesbian can date people with different sexual characteristics. In this case it's a little bit different, as it is not something that we can really control.



Actually this can be an interesting question. While I don't consider this as an oppressed condition reallyish, the stigma against bald people is definitely the echo of the intersection of different systems of domination: Without too much thinking I would say ableism and patriarchy. Ableism because baldness is associated with handicaps and illness and patriarchy because baldness makes us "less of a man".



Fair



Not all dating preferences are bad.
:shocking:



Again, I can't give you a straight answer. It's like explaining what colors feels like. It's unexplanable. At best I can't explain what it's not, different parameter, perhaps in contrast with the fact of not being a woman, but what it feels like or what it is to be a man is up to every men. It's for you to answer this question for yourself. It doesn't have to be clustered.



No. The opposite. People have sexual characteristics, therefore they are imprinted with the gender of women. Most people will accept it and will live ok with this imprint, but others (trans people) not so much. The reasons has yet to be explained, but it doesn't really matter, what is important is that trans people exist, they are legitimate.
You can explain what colour are.
Colour is the appearance that things have that results from the way in which they reflect light
Also, a colour perception by humans is defined by its wavelength.
Simple like that, two definitions. Maybe for poor scholarised manchildren it's unexplainable.

My friend, you said that women have female characteristics here:

For women, it's mostly a construction that is imprinted on people with female sexual characteristic, a form of imposition, which is then self justified by later oppression, but it's also more.
And then you say the opposite. What is it lil' buddy, having word salad syndrome?
No. The opposite. People have sexual characteristics, therefore they are imprinted with the gender of women. Most people will accept it and will live ok with this imprint, but others (trans people) not so much. The reasons has yet to be explained, but it doesn't really matter, what is important is that trans people exist, they are legitimate.

Also the fact that I have been punched by women, assaulted by men and mugged by men in the past means I should not be scared of being alone with a stranger with a knife? Are you insane?
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That's funny, I used to go on so many lone walks at night over the years, even passed by some weird looking fellows but nothing ever happened to me.
He doesn't go out, how would he know.
 
What? I thought you were thinking to yourself.


You can explain what colour are.
Colour is the appearance that things have that results from the way in which they reflect light
Also, a colour perception by humans is defined by its wavelength.
Yeah, but not what they feel like or why I prefer a color over another or why I see color a certain way.. Gender is a social construct, that's what I can tell you, being a man is also a social construct. Now, what being a man means to you, I have no idea. It's up to you to find the answer.


My friend, you said that women have female characteristics here:
I said "people" specifically for a reason, not women.


Also the fact that I have been punched by women, assaulted by men and mugged by men in the past means I should not be scared of being alone with a stranger with a knife? Are you insane?
You don't have to project your experience on me, I was talking about me. If you are afraid with stranger, I'm sorry for you, but what do you want me to say?
 
I said "people" specifically for a reason, not women.
Then I am the one twisting uh? You used "people" to define the women who have female sexual characteristics.
For women, it's mostly a construction that is imprinted on people with female sexual characteristic, a form of imposition, which is then self justified by later oppression, but it's also more.
Literally.

You don't have to project your experience on me, I was talking about me. If you are afraid with stranger, I'm sorry for you, but what do you want me to say?
Not projecting. You said that ONLY women have to be worried about that, which means me, a man, doesn't have to.
Do you have an understanding of what you say or you just randomly spout words?
 
You said that ONLY women have to be worried about that
Where ?

I said that "I" was not afraid of what a man could do to me alone
>>
I'm not afraid of what a man could do to me alone

Yeah but this makes women a subset of people with female characteristics ANYWAY, do you understand basic set theory?
Women are indeed just one of the gender categories which can have female sexual characteristics. Some men can have boobs, vagina etc. It's not completely binary.
 
What? I thought you were thinking to yourself.
I bet you'd vote for her
https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jette_Nietzard
Commentary on fireworks injuries and ideals of masculinity

On December 31, 2024, Nietzard posted a tweet on platform X that sparked criticism from both the media and within her own party. She wrote: “Men who lose their hands to fireworks can at least no longer beat women.” In connection with various posts on her Instagram account regarding dating and the general behavior of men, she was accused on social media in early January 2025 of generalizing, radical behavior and even misandry. [15] The next day, she apologized for her statement and deleted her post, but at the same time emphasized the need to discuss domestic violence rather than “hurt male egos.”[16] She said she had deliberately wanted to polarize opinion.[17]
 
Where ?

I said that "I" was not afraid of what a man could do to me alone
You are not afraid in contraposition with a woman, meaning that only a woman can be a victim of that.
Otherwise your entire phrase doesn't have sense. Because you are a MAN because you are not [..] afraid of what a man could to to you alone.
Dishonest as always.
Women are indeed just one of the gender categories which can have female sexual characteristics. Some men can have boobs, vagina etc. It's not completely binary.
Twisting your own words, little buddy? You didn't say CAN. You said they are oppressed because of female characteristics. No CAN. they NEED to to have female sexual characteristics. Otherwise how can they be oppressed because of that.
Thank you, finally something from you.
 

Reborn

Throughout Heaven & Earth,I alone am d Honored One
@Reborn Is discrimination against baldies sexism ? Or is because of patriarchy ? @Logiko

Or is it both :myman:



To be fair, I can get scared of a stranger if I'm alone with him. Especially if he looks stronger and a bit weird.



I don't date the bourgeoisie :endthis:
There is no discrimination against baldies.

What we have is jealousy and envy towards baldies due to then being more masculine men :BigW:
 
Nah.. She is wrong. They can also use their legs.

You are not afraid in contraposition with a woman, meaning that only a woman can be a victim of that.
Otherwise your entire phrase doesn't have sense. Because you are a MAN because you are not [..] afraid of what a man could to to you alone.
Dishonest as always.
Stop twisting words :shocking:

You said they are oppressed because of female characteristics.
Where ? lmao
It's literally wrong. The domination of men over women is mostly gender based.
 
Gay conversion therapies are bad but the opposite is good, according to Logiko
And what would be the opposite ?
Therapy to force you to be gay ?

:optimistic:


My mistake in talking to you, you got me again.
You are dishonest, intellectually challenged and frankly a waste of my time.
Nah, you just have an habit of twisting words to convince people that I say stuff I literally don't. (you can check, I verified). It was the same with Carrot. You took me challenging your ideas as a lack of coherency and as always, you can't take the heat when I prove that you are trying to twist my words to render my point incoherent and you finish with ableism as always. Simple insecurity really.
 
Won't join
And what would be the opposite ?
Therapy to force you to be gay ?

:optimistic:



Nah, you just have an habit of twisting words to convince people that I say stuff I literally don't. (you can check, I verified). It was the same with Carrot. You took me challenging your ideas as a lack of coherency and as always, you can't take the heat when I prove that you are trying to twist my words to render my point incoherent and you finish with ableism as always. Simple insecurity really.
 
That is not really what straight mean, unless I don't understand this slang specifically. But in that case, yup, this would be transphobic. You don't know what could happen or who you can feel in love with. It's like saying "I only date white women" which is racist..
"super straight" is a term designated for people who only date cisgendered people.

so me having a preference in regards who i take as partner makes me transphobic and/or racist?

interesting.
 
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