Thoughts On Frauding Your Height?

Every guy should exaggerate by a couple inches yes or no?

  • Yes

    Votes: 8 21.6%
  • No

    Votes: 8 21.6%
  • Stop being an insecure bitch

    Votes: 21 56.8%

  • Total voters
    37

ZenZu

The only one who can beat me is me
Ok if instead I wore hiking or dress shoes instead? Those will do literally the same as lifts but it’s cheaper lol
Yea that's a lot more acceptable than lifts if you actually like the shoes. If I ever saw one of my friends with lifts he'd never hear the end of it. That's actually pretty pathetic. Most girls think you're legitimately 6 feet without them, dudes are 5'9" out here claiming 6 and they are none the wiser.
 
Yea that's a lot more acceptable than lifts if you actually like the shoes. If I ever saw one of my friends with lifts he'd never hear the end of it. That's actually pretty pathetic. Most girls think you're legitimately 6 feet without them, dudes are 5'9" out here claiming 6 and they are none the wiser.
So what you’re saying is the next time I wear them I should say 6’1”
:DeepThink:
 

ConquistadoR

The Rogue Prince
Are they? A friend told me they do work! :quest:
It's not about whether they work or not.
It's what it leads to... a social media-esque way of choosing your partner based on purely attractiveness.
The problem is women don't rate men (jezebel curve) the same way men rate women (a bell curve).



And that is not healthy for a society, and leads to further problems like the breakdown of a traditional family unit.
 
It's not about whether they work or not.
It's what it leads to... a social media-esque way of choosing your partner based on purely attractiveness.
The problem is women don't rate men (jezebel curve) the same way men rate women (a bell curve).



And that is not healthy for a society, and leads to further problems like the breakdown of a traditional family unit.
This is for fast-food dating apps like tinder, hinge is a bit different even though it’s a dating app
 
You could, that's the problem. Stop wearing lifts lol.
Why would he wear lifts? Be honest @EmperorKinyagi whats your real height? 5'6?

It's what it leads to... a social media-esque way of choosing your partner based on purely attractiveness.
I doubt people are in Tinder to find their life partners - more like for blowing off steam 😂

And that is not healthy for a society, and leads to further problems like the breakdown of a traditional family unit.
This is very common irl too. Thats why many females tends to settle down only when they are above 30.
 
It's not about whether they work or not.
It's what it leads to... a social media-esque way of choosing your partner based on purely attractiveness.
The problem is women don't rate men (jezebel curve) the same way men rate women (a bell curve).



And that is not healthy for a society, and leads to further problems like the breakdown of a traditional family unit.
Here’s the issue I have with this, women’s attractiveness curve for men shifts to about the same as men’s for long term relationships (I think it’s like the first or second chart).

I use Hinge (which is more relationship focused than a casual dating app like tinder), I live in a large city area (so I have a lot of volume), and I set my preferences TO long term relationships (because that is my goal), and I’ve never had issues getting a couple dates a month out of it.

I’m like average face wise, maybe a little above body wise just because I’m decently lean, and I really have not had problems. You just can’t be a retard and think you’re going to get casual sex
 

ConquistadoR

The Rogue Prince
Here’s the issue I have with this, women’s attractiveness curve for men shifts to about the same as men’s for long term relationships (I think it’s like the first or second chart).

I use Hinge (which is more relationship focused than a casual dating app like tinder), I live in a large city area (so I have a lot of volume), and I set my preferences TO long term relationships (because that is my goal), and I’ve never had issues getting a couple dates a month out of it.

I’m like average face wise, maybe a little above body wise just because I’m decently lean, and I really have not had problems. You just can’t be a retard and think you’re going to get casual sex
Haven't ever used Hinge so idk how that works.

I only really approach girls irl these days.
 
But the thing you have to keep in mind is that on the majority of online dating platforms, women set FILTERS to stop themselves from getting bombarded with 1000s of dick picks.

One of the most popular filters is height, in a lot of cases a woman will set a filter higher than what’d she actually accept in real life just because she needs someway to sort people.

Again I’m not saying you should lie and say you’re like a foot taller than you are, but in a lot of ways this is like embellishing your resume or adding a keyword to get past a filter on a job application.
But I fail to see why you wouldn't just tell her what your height is straight up?, if they are willing to accept something not far below 6 foot then you shouldn't have any insecurity about the matter. At your height, with proper posture and a fit physique you're set. But this issue is more of a social one than a personal one, I understand why you feel the need to wear the lifts because that's the type of society you're living in, where masculinity is measured in inches and not substance. But it's up to you to break free of that, for your own mental well being. I know it may seem extreme what I'm saying but if you pan back on modern western society and see the state of male female relationships and the collapse of the nuclear family you'll see that every little detail counts.
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But the thing you have to keep in mind is that on the majority of online dating platforms, women set FILTERS to stop themselves from getting bombarded with 1000s of dick picks.

One of the most popular filters is height, in a lot of cases a woman will set a filter higher than what’d she actually accept in real life just because she needs someway to sort people.

Again I’m not saying you should lie and say you’re like a foot taller than you are, but in a lot of ways this is like embellishing your resume or adding a keyword to get past a filter on a job application.
But I fail to see why you wouldn't just tell her what your height is straight up?, if they are willing to accept something not far below 6 foot then you shouldn't have any insecurity about the matter. At your height, with proper posture and a fit physique you're set. But this issue is more of a social one than a personal one, I understand why you feel the need to wear the lifts because that's the type of society you're living in, where masculinity is measured in inches and not substance. But it's up to you to break free of that, for your own mental well being. I know it may seem extreme what I'm saying but if you pan back on modern western society and see the state of male female relationships and the collapse of the nuclear family you'll see that every little detail counts.
 

ConquistadoR

The Rogue Prince
But this issue is more of a social one than a personal one, I understand why you feel the need to wear the lifts because that's the type of society you're living in, where masculinity is measured in inches and not substance. But it's up to you to break free of that, for your own mental well being. I know it may seem extreme what I'm saying but if you pan back on modern western society and see the state of male female relationships and the collapse of the nuclear family you'll see that every little detail counts.
You could not have said it better.
 
Not saying that dating apps don't work at all, but social media in general has created such an unhealthy environment for young people.

Like I do believe in a healthy amount of consuming self-improvement and looksmaxing type content and beliefs, but it's gotten so out of control to the point where a very, very attractive guy can become extremely disillusioned with himself.

Like a guy who's an 8+ face-wise with an attractive body and a good job, who's a nice person, starts thinking that he's butt-ugly and entirely undesirable because he's 5'6 or 5'7.
 
Haven't ever used Hinge so idk how that works.

I only really approach girls irl these days.
I think main issue isn’t the dating apps it is the cultural emphasis on casual sex.

Because you are correct, women have MUCH higher standards for casual hook ups than men do AS THEY SHOULD lmao and that does create an imbalance in casual dating.

But again I can literally hard confirm this at least anectodally, if you’re main goal is a genuine relationship it’s a much more level field
 
It's not about whether they work or not.
It's what it leads to... a social media-esque way of choosing your partner based on purely attractiveness.
The problem is women don't rate men (jezebel curve) the same way men rate women (a bell curve).



And that is not healthy for a society, and leads to further problems like the breakdown of a traditional family unit.
Hypergamy
 
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