Controversial Is it bad to be a virgin into your late 20s?

[Kiiro]

Is it bad? No.

It all depends on what you really want. Hard to know if you want it because society tells you, or you want it to experience it.

It is much better with a person you love. Instead of searching sex, maybe search love.

But also, this might affect how you interact with girls in the future. Remember to attract them, not seek for them. Build self confidence and what you want and who you are.

 

[Fuckthis3]

Is it bad? No.

It all depends on what you really want. Hard to know if you want it because society tells you, or you want it to experience it.

It is much better with a person you love. Instead of searching sex, maybe search love.

But also, this might affect how you interact with girls in the future. Remember to attract them, not seek for them. Build self confidence and what you want and who you are.

Who says it outright better with the one you love then searching for girls who want give pleasure to relive stress like you?

 

[Kiiro]

Who says it outright better with the one you love then searching for girls who want give pleasure to relive stress like you?

Then it all depends on each person. But yeah, your are right even with a person you barely know can be very great.

I chose 1 person than being being with many, yet it doesn't take that thise girls werent great.

 

[Fuckthis3]

Then it all depends on each person. But yeah, your are right even with a person you barely know can be very great.

I chose 1 person than being being with many, yet it doesn't take that thise girls werent great.

Solid point even the one you want love might not turn out great @Monkey D Theories

 

[Monkey D Theories]

Do you postpone a lot of things?

yeah, bad habit of mine

 

[NAMELESS]

Is it bad? No.

It all depends on what you really want. Hard to know if you want it because society tells you, or you want it to experience it.

It is much better with a person you love. Instead of searching sex, maybe search love.

But also, this might affect how you interact with girls in the future. Remember to attract them, not seek for them. Build self confidence and what you want and who you are.

"search for love" Very good mindset.

 

[Toby D. Dog]

Apparently the average person looses their virginity at a relatively young age.

I’m about 23, which is definitely on the older side.

I don’t think I would have an issue getting a girlfriend or having sex if I wanted to. A while back I downloaded Hinge just for fun and I was able to get a few matches within a day.

The thing is, I feel like there’s a very specific thing I want in life and I don’t want to derail my goals just for the sake of another person.

I’d like to get my masters degree
Work out and lose weight
Move somewhere up north, like New York City or Boston

Feel like only once I get what I want, will I be okay with settling down and getting married. Only then would it really make sense for me to start seriously dating people.

I feel like it’s so odd. Because if you ever go on subreddits like r/foreveralone or you listen to incels, they always talk about how miserable and humiliating it is to be a virgin in your 20s.

But idk it just seems silly. Most of my friends ended up losing their virginities in failed relationships. I just can’t see how that’s desirable.

Losing your virginity isn't something that would make you lose focus. However, if you think you don't want to have flings and that sex is something that you'd only share with someone special to you then you do you.

Just do it if you want to. If you want to wait then just wait.

 

[Ultra]

No but specifically if you are a virgin on a one piece forum talking about "no mihawk is stronger than shanks" then it is joever for you

 

[Toby D. Dog]

I like that word. It is funny.

Sigma videos are funny. They really have MC syndrome.

 

[Adam 🍎]

I wasted good chunk of my life chasing, dating, fucking women I barely think of today, not even in good or bad sense of thinking.

If I could tell one thing to my younger self that would be to not give pussy so much of my life and focus on things that actually matter

 

[Monster Zoro's Tesla Supplier]

Sigma videos are funny. They really have MC syndrome.

It's mostly weird teenagers with no friends

 

[matt245]

This might be MDT's best thread.

 

[Kiiro]

It's mostly weird teenagers with no friends

How many real friends do you have in real life?

 

[BillSlipton]

Apparently the average person looses their virginity at a relatively young age.

I’m about 23, which is definitely on the older side.

I don’t think I would have an issue getting a girlfriend or having sex if I wanted to. A while back I downloaded Hinge just for fun and I was able to get a few matches within a day.

The thing is, I feel like there’s a very specific thing I want in life and I don’t want to derail my goals just for the sake of another person.

I’d like to get my masters degree
Work out and lose weight
Move somewhere up north, like New York City or Boston

Feel like only once I get what I want, will I be okay with settling down and getting married. Only then would it really make sense for me to start seriously dating people.

I feel like it’s so odd. Because if you ever go on subreddits like r/foreveralone or you listen to incels, they always talk about how miserable and humiliating it is to be a virgin in your 20s.

But idk it just seems silly. Most of my friends ended up losing their virginities in failed relationships. I just can’t see how that’s desirable.

Vagina is so good tho

 

[Foul Legacy]

How many real friends do you have in real life?

 

[vikas]

No. You can be virgin your whole life, there is nothing bad in that.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

If you really want to get laid you need to date . Just go to some random dates or pub .
To be fair sex can be great but relationship is huge commitment . Just chill you are in early 20 s make friends and hang out get to know them .

I would suggest random blind dates you can ask your friend to set it up for you or go to parties talk to ladies . All the best .

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No. You can be virgin your whole life, there is nothing bad in that.

Human is social animal . Sex is greatest thing why do you want the dude to be Virgin .

 

[Kiiro]

Do you talk spanish ot what is your natal language?

 

[minamoto]

you all got married to ur left hands u bunsh of virgin posies..

 

[FloriGlori]

Apparently the average person looses their virginity at a relatively young age.

I’m about 23, which is definitely on the older side.

I don’t think I would have an issue getting a girlfriend or having sex if I wanted to. A while back I downloaded Hinge just for fun and I was able to get a few matches within a day.

The thing is, I feel like there’s a very specific thing I want in life and I don’t want to derail my goals just for the sake of another person.

I’d like to get my masters degree
Work out and lose weight
Move somewhere up north, like New York City or Boston

Feel like only once I get what I want, will I be okay with settling down and getting married. Only then would it really make sense for me to start seriously dating people.

I feel like it’s so odd. Because if you ever go on subreddits like r/foreveralone or you listen to incels, they always talk about how miserable and humiliating it is to be a virgin in your 20s.

But idk it just seems silly. Most of my friends ended up losing their virginities in failed relationships. I just can’t see how that’s desirable.

There's nothing odd about it as long you're fine with it.

I lost my virginity at 19 and felt that was pretty late compared to my peer. In theory I was fine with being a virgin, but peer expectations made me feel uncomfortable about it in certain moments. In a social context where popularity somewhat equals attractiveness and mating success, which is imo often the case with teen guys, there's a certain social pressure on it.

However, I think that it's weird that you're contrasting getting laid/dating as the opposite of pursuing your goals (studying, working out, whatever). Dating and fucking is not that serious, and if you believe that sexual contact will completely hypnotize you to stray from your goals, thats's toxic bs imo. You can have fun and gather sexual experiences while still chasing your goals. You could even have a proper relationship and profit from loving support when you're struggling with goals.