Logiko took it as me being cruel and dismissing people's struggles, and how much he cares for people.
Again.. you are speaking with your biases and as always - sigh - deforming what I say.

I did not say that it was cruel. I said that it was toxic.

Toxic means that the word you use have a toxic effect on people you uses them on. (that's why I often use the term "toxicity" on this forum). You can perfectly have a toxic behavior out of love.

I truly believe that you are well intentioned. But the reality is that no matter how much love you have for a person. If you explain to them how to live or fight their struggle at their place, it will result in a systematic negative effect.

Let people come to you for advice. Love people without conditions and trust them to find their own way in life.
 
Again.. you are speaking with your biases and as always - sigh - deforming what I say.

I did not say that it was cruel. I said that it was toxic.

Toxic means that the word you use have a toxic effect on people you uses them on. (that's why I often use the term "toxicity" on this forum). You can perfectly have a toxic behavior out of love.

I truly believe that you are well intentioned. But the reality is that no matter how much love you have for a person. If you explain to them how to live or fight their struggle at their place, it will result in a systematic negative effect.

Let people come to you for advice. Love people without conditions and trust them to find their ways in life.
If it were up to you, everything could be considered Toxic. That's another reason I can't stand, You're always up in arms for any little slight. Which is hilarious because that in itself is toxic.
 
If it were up to you, everything could be considered Toxic.
No. There is a few people here that I don't consider toxic. Don't make your case a generality mate. Also, I have a vision based on movement, which means that I only remember toxic behavior during a few week then there is a big chance that I forget about it.

(unless you are a special case like Bob)


You're always up in arms for any little slight
If by "little slight" you mean proper toxic behavior, then yes.
Which is hilarious because that in itself is toxic.
Oh the famous antipolitical and fallacious argument : "you are toxic because you report toxicity".

Its funny because I was threadbanned for that once.

Ahhh... The good old time.. When I was still very naive about the moral righteousness of the staff here


 
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