Logiko took it as me being cruel and dismissing people's struggles, and how much he cares for people.
I did not say that it was cruel. I said that it was toxic.
Toxic means that the word you use have a toxic effect on people you uses them on. (that's why I often use the term "toxicity" on this forum). You can perfectly have a toxic behavior out of love.
I truly believe that you are well intentioned. But the reality is that no matter how much love you have for a person. If you explain to them how to live or fight their struggle at their place, it will result in a systematic negative effect.
Let people come to you for advice. Love people without conditions and trust them to find their own way in life.